I know of two instances in the past week when I’ve held back from telling my friends that I love them right when I was feeling it. Why? No good reason. Sometimes it’s difficult for me to say it out loud to people if I haven’t said it that many times before.
And I find that to be so ridiculous and no way that I want to live my life. It always makes my day when friends tell me they love me right when I’m in the middle of doing something they think is amazing. Why should I hold back from passing that on?
Now, relate that to your writing. Think about how much better your writing would be if you didn’t hold back; if you let your raw feelings come forward; if you truly and openly let your pen speak from your heart? That’s where the good writing comes from.
I’m going to try and do both and hope that they rub off on each other.
Live boldly. Write boldly.
What do you do when someones madly inlove with you, but you think your inlove with someone else?
I think the hardest part about writing is to realize what I’m actually feeling or thinking. Too ofen my senses are so dulled that it seems I don’t think or feel anything at all. Obviously, I do have unique thoughts and emotions. But what does one do when he can’t seem to find those?
what do you do if you have a girlfriend who is really close to you, she loves you more than anything. but very recently you see your past love, someone you have loved for 8 years, but never wanted to say anything about it because she is your cousin. a really deep love. and you fear that if you leave your girlfriend for your cousin your girlfriend may become suicidal and your cousin may not even feel the same way? you have been going out with your girlfriend for 9 months, what do your parents say if you do go out with your cousin? what will her parents say?
Graham, you have an interesting situation on your hands. My guess would be that you are under 25. First of all, the relationship you are currently in is not healthy and making changes would be good regardless of the cousin.
You didn’t say you love your current girlfriend, but if you care about her, help her seek some treatment. Counseling, or through a spiritual advisor if you are religious.
Sure breakups are painful and can be extremely difficult, but they are not the end of the world. Many times, they lead to something better or personal growth that you might not have been aware was needed. And if you’ve never lived through your first heartbreak, it’s hard to see past it.
As for your cousin, one sided love is not fun. Without proclaiming your undying love for her, maybe you could bring up in conversation the deep connection the two of you have and start a talk about what it means. She might only love you with that family kind of love, and not the kind where she wants to get in your pants.
Either way, communication with both women is the next step. The idea is to have a happy, loving, lasting relationship. It’s not clear that you could have that with either option at the moment, so no need to do anything crazy just yet.
How do you tell someone that you truly care for them and want to be with then but you know that this someone is going to be getting married. Even though latley you have been messing around with one another.
If you’re messing around with someone that’s marrying someone else, you don’t really want them, do you? Come on now. If you’re looking for meaningless sex that’s one thing, but how about “truly caring” for someone who knows how to stand by a commitment.
I love my boyfriend very much. He’s means the whole world to me, But he tends to say things about other girls in front of me to make me mad.I know he’s just joking, but I really dont like it. And if we’re in public, He wont hold my hand. Is he ashamed of me or something? I want everyone to know he’s mine and they can’t have him, but i’m starting to think he doesn’t.Please If anyone has any advice please e-mail me! I really need your help! WHAT DO I DO??
what to you do when you care for someone as a friend and then it escalates into something more, the feelings, but its really hard to tell them because u dont want to jepordize your relationship.???
ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i have never told him i love him…I am i love with him but i am so scared to say it..what if he doesnt love me back what do i do?
I have this ex boy friend… That I love so much… He told me that he loves me too. But when i broke up with him he told me that was it that i messed up and that we wont go out anymore… I still love him and I want him to know that I want to marry him… But how??? Help me please.. Email me as soon as you know something I can do…
Carrie, becareful of urgent and hasty feelings. Someone once told me that “men ask, women decide.” Sure, that route isn’t for everybody, but you can tell your ex how you feel if you want. No need to have online strangers make that decision for you. If it’s meant to happen, it will. At the end of the day, you want someone who wants to be with You. If he doesn’t, he doesn’t. Someone else will.
i have told the woman that I like her and I know she likes me but is afraid to make the first move. The way she acts tells me she wants me but she has not told me face to face. Shou;d i make the first move and she where it gets me or should i just leave it alone and let her come to me when she is ready? I am afraid she wont come to me, i like her alot. Please help
How do you know if you love someone? I have stop believing in myself. I don’t know what I feel is really “love” (if it really exists) or just pure infatuation. I’d rather not tell the girl how I feel (esp since she’s my best friend). I don’t want to hurt her in the future.
My boyfriend of a year just told me he loves me. I can’t say it out loud to him. Why? I tell everyone else how much I love him. I do love him and it hurts more NOT to say it. Why am I so scared? I know it’s hurting him too.
Hello,
i really like this boy but i dont think that he will ever like me. His past girlfriends have all been tall and blonde and i am completely different! i’m worried that if i tell him i have feelings for him he will just tell all his mates and laugh at me. I really want him to know i like him but i wish i knew how to make him love me?
please give me some advice.
Sweetie, you can’t make someone love you. I promise if you don’t make this guy the focus of your daily existence, good things will start happening for you. You certainly don’t want to be made a laughing stock, and if you already have the feeling that he could do this to you, then follow your gut and dont emit a vowel of your affection towards him. Trust me, when u like someone, you are meant to feel happy and sure of yourself. When doubts as such arrive, one becomes miserable. You seem way too young to be concerning yourself with such trivial things. Focus on yourself, make yourself the best possible, love yourself, and then may others will follow. For your sake, don’t ever again say “I want to make him love me”. You must remember your worth, and if he dosen’t have a clue, then he was never worth your time to begin with. Good luck.
I’m having trouble telling the guy i’m with that i love him because we work together and i dont want to make things difficult at work for the both of us. please if u have any advise email me soon
what do you do if your going out with your best-friend, but he really isn’t who you want to date. And you like this other guy a lot more but you think that if you break up with your boyfriend it will ruin your friendship?
well i have to say that i fell in love with my best friend but since i am his best friend i know about all the girls that like him and almost everything about him … ive told him i liked him and he gives me the hint he likes me to, but some days its hard to know what he is feeling somedays it will feel like we are steping up a level and i feel together then the next day it will be like were best friends … sometimes i even feel like he is trying to see my reactions and how i will feel if he talks to some one else or flirts .. and to be right it gets me upset i just dont like to show it and when it does show on my face he tells me i trip to much . what should i do wait for the one i think im falling in love with and hold on and show him i love him or move on
Well where do I start *thinks* well I don’t have much to say but and there is always a but… I spoke to my girlfriend tonight who is on holiday cause she just finished school, and well its like a thing for friends when they leave school to go on holidays… In South Africa we call it matric rave / rage whatever…. anyways going on… I spoke to her tonight and told her I miss her and she well… she didn’t say she misses me instead I had to hear in the background one of her friends saying stop phoning jackass…. now u know… I mean I have been dating this girl for like 3 years… so vo this… I am like kinda lank depressed… drinking beer and thinking my girlfriend is telling her friends how crap I am… so like what do I do ?
I have liked a girl for four years. I have been there when she and her 2 year bf broke up. I helped her through the time, and want to now be more then friends with her. I asked her, and she has yet to say yes, since her answer was a simple “maybe”. What can i do to make her see that i really do like her??
Don’t force it. Many times it freaks people out when someone–esp. a friend–wants to become romantic with them. They can feel put on the spot. Just keep in mind that you can’t make someone like you in that way. It’s a big “if,” and sadly, not always a big “when.” Give it time, but know when to put your energy elsewhere. And don’t let anything affect the friendship.
This has been a public service announcement. Don’t do drugs.
My question may be one that is more confusing than many I’ve read on here. Everyone seems to be asking whether it is infatuation or love…
My problem however, is that my feelings of love have “disappeared”, even though I know that I love him. I don’t plan on him being the one I am with the rest of my life, as I am still very young, but I know it is possible to have more than one love in your life.
I think the reason for my lost feelings is that I also am unaware as to how he feels about me. It seems that physical actions (ie. sex) are all that is important to him. I know it is often hard for men to express forms of love, but there is the feeling that all he wants is the physical side to the relationship.
I once told him (when I was still unsure whether I loved him) that I did and he broke up with me, although we got back together a very short time later–less than a week. It has now been almost six more months, and still nothing. I am wondering, am I wasting my time? It doesn’t feel that way, but perhaps that is how it is, and I am just afraid to venture back out in the world of single people? He leaves for college soon anyways, so our separation will happen regardless, but I want to enjoy life in the now. I feel joyful, but when I don’t get any feelings of love back, it seems to dissapate? Any suggestions?
ok so this aint totally about is it love or infatuation. but i totally need some advice. I talk to this guy who i met over the internet almost everyday. we never really met in person and i dont know if i exactly want to. so this is where the problem begins i guess. well i was talking to him the other day and he was telling me that he wanted me to be his gf and that i was pretty and everything. i like him to but he is 18 and i am only 14. so problem number one is the age?? what do i do he is over age could i still date him. problem 2) my parents they wouldnt accept him bc of his age. well i think that i love and have told him this so now he wants to meet me. i want to meet him to dont get that idea but…i am afraid that if we do meet he will end up being older than he says. and if he meets me he will think i am ugly or somthing and not want to meet me. SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO.
to the girl who has met an 18 year old guy on the internet ok i’m not totally sure what i can say i am not much older than you are i’m almost 16 and well i am dating a 23 year old. What i say is that age doesn’t matter to a certain point. well yea i think u could still date i think the legal age is 14 for dating someone a lil older. ok my b/f is 8 years older than me and my mom does not agree but well i just say w/e because i really like him so i am going to be with him. yea i kinda got my self in a hard position because i had broken up with my b/f for awhile and met a guy on the internet and he said he’s going to try his best to cum and see me this month. he wants to be with me i told him i wanted to be with him to but yea i’m back with my b/f now. ok well yea that’s kewl if u guys meet. but just watch out girl and he wouldn’t want to meet if he thought u were ugly i think hope everything works out for you
how do u know that u love someone. my b/f asked me if i loved him i said yes because i think i do, he asked why and how i know should i be able to explain . any comments
What do you do if you love someone but you don’t know if they love you?
Ray,
If you really love someone then you have feelings for them. Maybe its not time to love some one but you will know sooner or later. Just take your time and wait till the time is right.
Today I told my boyfriend I loved him. We have been going out for about 2 months now. How do you know they love you?
i’ve been really close friends with this guy at my school for about two years, but lately i feel like i want more out of the relationship. how do i know if he feels the same way about me? should i tell him how i feel?
please write back!
Since you are good friends, you should have a good idea about what kind of relationship he is looking for. If you don’t ask him why he hasn’t made an effort in finding a relationship. Like I said, if you really know him, you should have a good idea what kind of relationship he is looking for. But sometimes you have to dig a little deeper to find this out. Guys like to show off for their friends, projecting a different image- say a player, but really he is just waiting for the right person. In any event, talk to him about it. If he is a really good friend, either you might end up spending more quality time together which could lead into something, or he will understand and your friendship should be fine. Good luck!
ok. here’s the deal:
im inlove with this guy i haven’t met yet – he lives in another state. i know he’s not like a pedofile or anything coz i’ve seen him on webcam, talked to him on the phone, seen his friends etc. and he loves me too. we talk on the phone everynight about everything… oh, and he’s two years younger than me.
the problem is.. how do i meet up with him without my parents knowing? (because they’d disapprove for sure)i love him sooo much and i really want to be with him. help!
i dont know what to do. i like this guy sooo much. but the problem is that he only likes me as a friend. he is driving me insane. its like i need him to feel complete. it sounds crazy but he means everything to me, and i dont no what to do.
hey ray thanks for that advice we finally hooked up today still havent met but i know that it was a good choice i love him so much and he loves me. he aint like most the guys that i have been with who just want me for bed he actually cares and wants to be there whenever he can well we are probably going to meet next weekend i cant wait *smiles* but yea just wanted to say thanks
Okay i have this online love (i was going to meet in 2 years) right, we had some relationship problems and broke up for a while but we were probably going to go back out but than her friend she (knew for 3 years) came back and she went out with him and im still very madly inlove with her and she wants nothing to do with me because she doesnt want to start likeing me,but i dont know what to do i really want her back.
ok joseph…what i think that you should do is just talk to her. tell her that you want to be friends…nothing more than that. wouldn’t you want her as at least a friend, even if you can’t have her as more then that? tell her that you know that she is already dating someone else and that you will not make any wrong moves on her to make her feel uncomfortable. tell her that you don’t want her out of your life forever just because she met someone else.
I think I’ve just met the girl of my Dreams. I really like this girl and she s all that I think about..problem is, she has a boyfriend of 7yrs but she said that she s not in-love with him. We promised to become best friends and see what happens in the future but recently her BF found that we’ve been hanging/talking and now, we don’t hang out or talk on the phone anymore. She said she needs to work things out with her Boyfriend first and then see what could happen between us. But for some reason I can’t help but feel like she has turned her back on me…Im hoping that s not what it is but why do I feel that way.
i dated this guy for a month… then my friends kinda messed it up and we broke up a couple months later he asks me 2 be his girlfriend again and i said yeah beacause i really never stoped loveing him …i really love him and its really hard to forget what all happend and start over again i donno weather to pick up were we left off or act like it never happend. what should i do please help!
I am an arabian lady ,I have faild at love srory as i get marred to the person I loved then the love id died so Now Iam looking for a love .
May I love him at the arabic mothod but now I tent to love as English love so I read at that feild at English languge…i found alot og things which intetested in an did not find at my X one….who can help me to love again
I fell for a guy i never would have thought i would have…he is everything that i really wanted even if people say that all the time i really do..We were close talked all the time and then suddently one day everything changed he gave up on us without saying a word i asked him if i did something wrong but he said i didn’t
so my question is what do you do when you are so in love with someone even when you are mad at eachother you want to be with them even more……
ok i had a boyfriend and we went out for 2 years and then we started to get in fights we always said i love you though but then the fights got bad and one minute we are just fine and then the next day he dumped me and all of a sudden started hating me and ive been trying to be really nice to him and tell him sorry for whatever i did but he says he hates me but deep down i know he still loves me waht should i do?! im soo confused!
How do u tell a Girl dat u REALLY LOVE n dat u cant get ova dem even thought that girl has a boyfriend??
adam
i think that for your problem you should tell the girl that u want to talk to her and u dont want to hurt her relationship but tell her how u feel about her hopefully she will get the idea and choose from there
There was this boy at my school that I really liked. We were really good friends, so i told him that i wanted more out of our relationship, but he told me he wasn’t interested in being more than friends with anybody right now. Now I can’t get over him. What should I do? Please help!
i’ve been talking to this girl that i met on myspace.com,we just met this friday for the first time. she lives about 2 and a half hours from me. anyways……..we hit it off very well, had a great time. we did barely nothing because she is sick, so we just laid in bed most of the time, which was abolsutely fine with me. i loved holding her in my arms and caressing her, i told her that i’d rather be there with her than any other place in the world (she smiled). she has been hurt in past relationships as well as i. she told me today that she was “scared to death” to love again. i told her that i understood, cuz i also have been hurt in the past. i’ve been cheated on NUMEROUS times, but i never give up searching for that special person. i dont think.. but i KNOW that i have found her that special person) for sure this time. i would do anything and everything for her, i would NEVER do anything to hurt her or put her down. she is an amazing, beautiful person, and i thank god for creating her. i guess my question is…..how can i re-assure her that i am true to my word and that i would never hurt her in any way shape or form. i know we just met but i have strong feelings for her, and i know this sounds cliche, but she is the person i have been waiting for all my life. anyone with some decent advice….please contact me at Behindblueize@aol.com
Thanks, Joe
What happens when you meet a man and can see very well he is married but is so sweet to you and you just fall in love with him? Thats me. Its been seven months now and got to a point that i can’t sleep becuse am scared of the day he will wake up and tell me he can’t see me anymore because his family needs him more…why do men lead you so on and knowing very well that they can’t be with you forever?
i have told a gay that i like him i know he like me but he afaird to make the move the way he act i know he like me but he want just say it to me he make his mate to say it i dont know weather to make the move or shall i wait until he cum to me .but the think is that i really like him plz could u help me
MEG!
I know how you feel I hate it when guys lead us on and just drop us, well the best advise i can give you is only be with a guy that puts in as much as you do or else you are wasting your time!!!!
good luck!
hi,
look ppl just because you cant be with the one you love dont put your life at a stand still there are plenty of other ppl out there that want to love you back you never know what the future brings you may end up together but for now move on enjoy yourself thats what i have to do……
take care all!
Can someone help me out? im so depressed.. there’s this guy named nick and i dated him for a while and we ended up breaking up.. and like i have all these feelings and love for him that i wish i didnt have cause he doesnt know if he loves me as a girl friend or as a friend and its really hard on me.. i have friends saying i should give up and move on but i cant.. they dont know him like i do.. they dont look into his eyes and see the world.. he wants me to wait for him to decide if he likes me as a girl friend or not but see the thing is what if i do wait and he ends up saying he only likes me as a friend? then i would be heart broken, not like im not now but yea.. so can someone please help me out?
hey, i have been talking to this guy for about 5 weeks, we fell in love . and i love him to death… and he tells me he loves me also, he makes me feel things i have NEVER not even with my husband have felt before, i am 27 years old and i feel like a teenager…
how can i tell him and show him all the things i feel and try to discover if he feels the same… please tell me….
yea i would have to agree with you. telling someone you love them isin’t always that easy. but how do you let them know that you love them and you would do anything for them without saying it?
that is what i would like to know, i know he feels for me , we talk all the time, and we tell one another we love each other, but there seems to be something missing, maybe on my end or his, i know we both have been hurt alot, and we are both divorced… but what do i do ? how do i go about it, some times just playing curtain songs tells each other what we are thinking and how we feel, but how do you do that when there are no music? i want him to feel all the love i have, and all i want to share, how do i do that? the time we have is little but the time we do share is so special…. i want to make him happy and keep a smile on his face like he does to me…
some times i feel like i need to bang my head on something….
~ HELP ~
i love a girl in my class
but the difficulty is that how can i make sure that she also loves me?
i m afraid that is ahe doesn’t then i m doomed!by my teacher!
hey yeah i have a problem i have an online love but she is pretty young and um..she loves someone else like but..she told him she wants to marry him but i dont want her to she told me she loves me and stuff but i dont know anymore whats happening..so im a bit confused. like shes only 16 she hasnt met him and i havent met her either but..yeah.
What do you do when you love someone deeply but you are in a long distance relationship? What do you do when you know that person has not been always honest with you? What do you do when you are finding it harder and harder to trust them based on past lies and ones that continue to arise? What do you do when you know deep inside your heart that no matter how much you love them, it’s not going to work? How do you let someone go whom you are madly in love with? Why do we allow ourselves to be tortured by the above?….Please help…
I love a girl but do not know how to confess?
There is this guy who really likes me. He told me he love me and he would do anything for me. I really like him a lot too, but never told him the truth. I went away for a couple years, and since then, he is all i think about. I found out lately that he has a girlfriend who is pregnant with his child, but still can’t get him out of my head. Now am moving back home, and the thought of seeing him a again is ‘killing’ me. I don’t know if i can handle it. Please give me some advice.
I love joseph so much..and i”m sure hes left like 2 comments about me on here..before..and..I feel bad now =/ like I do this shit just so he’ll feel hurt and I can feel satisfied because hes hurt..v.v I dont know..I really do love him..just not sure I want to be with him..it’ll just end up like always probably..or he’ll fall for some other chick again when we get in a fight or something..
anyways..love you joseph
Joseph..
I’ve been thinking..and well….this seems like an odd place to ask..but w.e you’ll look at it anyways ;p
will you go out with me?
love you so much..
hannah
Hannah i love you so much,
and like on the e-mail i told you
I’d love to go out with you forever
and for always.
y’know your so sweet for doing what you do
and writing this and that,baby i never loved anyone more than you.. i never loved anyone but yeah i love you Hannah i love you so much,
and like on the e-mail i told you
I’d love to go out with you forever
and for always.
y’know your so sweet for doing what you do
and writing this and that,baby i never loved anyone more than you.. i never loved anyone but yeah i love you
I have always, since high school, loved this one person named Eric, but never had the guts to ask him out. I love him so much that I think about him everyday. I have been married to my husband Tom for 5 years, and it is just not working due to him having a gaming addiction and has entirely abandoned me and his family. So I am starting the divorce process.
I still have VERY strong feelings for Eric, but are too afraid to say anything in fear he will get mad and run off before I can tell him everything.
The reason I want to tell Eric is for me to move on, and start the healing process. Plus that “what if” question is not haunting me anymore.
NOW HERE IS THE KICKER…..
Eric is Tom ‘s younger brother.
Even if I tell Eric, it will do no good, because I know that in the end we could never have a realationship. And it would be OK if he said he never liked me, I just want to know.
Please help! Should I tell Eric or not? This has been eating me up inside for a long time, and I need to come to a conclusion before it makes me crazy. I have not told anyone in fear that both Tom and Eric would find out and cause a embarrasment to the family.
Any advise would be appreciated.
well there is this girl she is getting marryed to another guy but we like one another she has liked me for a realy long time and they fight a lot the way it sound when we talk is that she wants to get out of it how do you ask her with out just strat up saying it it when we talk she has told me that she kickes her self in the ass every day now meaning that she is now geting marryd other or she would be with me i would love to be with her any ideas how to steal her away from what sonds like a bad relation ship or to find out if she wants out please email me back wally_16_2000@hotmail.com
Well, women really like guys who can spell “married” correctly. Work on that.
lol “me” i dont think u can distrupt a marriage okay so just get over it thats my advice. okay find someone new. or else shes gonna hate u and that ain’t nice now is it?
~King Joseph~ xD
eminem_whiterapper@hotmail.com
I just recently started dating my first love again. We are both going through a divorce at the same time and we both think it is really wierd that we are both going though the same thing at the same time. His divorce will be final tomorrow and mine will be next week. I have been having feelings that i haven’t had in a long time and i don’t know how to talk to him about it. See, I never really got over him. I always thought about him and wondered what if. And I think I may be falling in love with him all over again and don’t know how to tell him. My ex-husband cheated on me all the time and so did his ex-wife and I think we are both afraid of getting hurt again. Should I tell him how I feel or give it some time?
forgot to leave my e-mail address for the above camden1224@yahoo.com
i think im in love with someone i used to go out with, i just cant forget him and if i see him i cant explain how i feel and dont know how to tell him,because scared of what he mite say.
Jade:
If he is married or has a girl friend, forget it and move on. If he had feelings for you he would have moved on them. Next you need to ask yourself did you two split on bad terms last time. If hurt feelings are still there you need to clear those up before anything can move forward in the love department. If it ended badly the first time, then do not get your hopes up. If you are one of the lucky ones and he is not married, does not have a girlfriend or has no hard feelings, then go for it. Trust me on this one. You will one day really regret not doing it. See my entry on Jan 24. Good luck. lvaneck@oblatesusa.org
I have strong feeling for a girl that I have worked with for the past 9 months. We have become friends somewhat and she often seems to be interested in me but I get mixed feelings. We have gone out for a picnic lunch and shopping at the mall together. Sometimes she seems to really like me, but when I ask her to go out after work she becomes stand-offish and seems to be uncomfortable for a couple of days. When this happens I just back off and the next thing I know she is back to being flirtatious, friendly, and seeking my attention. She is 18 and I am 27. I have been reserved with my feelings towards her since we work together each day and because of the age gap. She recently began seeing someone who is my age, so I guess the age gap was not an issue with her. It doesn’t seem to be a good idea to date a coworker when you are in the same space all day each day, but she will soon quit her job to attend a local college full time, so that will no longer be an issue. I think she is an amazing person and I would love to have a shot at dating her. When I make attempts to have a friendship outside of work she flakes out and when I kick back like it’s no big deal she is all over me for attention. What is the deal? I know I’ve got it bad because I think about her and talk about her to friends and family constantly. I know I’m not making it so obvious to her that I like her so much that it scares her away. She knows that I am easily approachable and that I would not reject her. I just want to know why she makes it seem so obvious that she likes me and when I offer to take her out she flakes out and seem awkward.
i love sum1 sooo soooo much its hard 2 c em but i love em so much i love seein em… but after they r in love with your m8 it killes me inside 2 c em everyday i just feel so sad… i just want this person 2 no i love em! u no who u r xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I am totally in love with this guy. I have told him I care about him more then anything. He responded with that makes me feel so good, but I just can’t feel this way about you. I want to get over loving him but I can’t I want to be with him more then anything in life, and I really don’t want to lose him… I LOVE HIM MORE THEN LIFE ITSELF!!!
Jess,
I am a man who once had a girl love me as you love your guy. I cared for her very much but I didn’t feel the same strong feelings that she had for me. She stood by for a long time and then met someone else who she is crazy about. She will probably marry this guy. Now I miss her. I feel like I should have appreciated what she had for me. Give your guy a chance to miss you. In time he will appreciate your feelings towards him or you will meet someone more deserving.
Thanyla, I love you.
Ok i met this girl 5 months ago and well we started hanging out and became really good friends… well a while ago i started to fall for her… and was going to ask her out after new years but then i got grounded and someone else did… and i love her alot… and if she is happy with that guy i am happy for her… i just dont want her to get hurt… and well to get to the point… im just killing myself because i dont want to let go until i tell her how i feel and i dont want to tell her how i feel cause well she is currently in a relationship… i thought about waiting it out but it just kills me cause im always around her… and she and her boyfriend only hang out like once a week and barely talk… but she seems happy with him… im going to stop rambling on im just confused and dunno what to do… and well i just found out a week ago that she used to like me… but any advice would be aprciated
I met someone back in high school, we dated for 2 years and had to part since we are from different place. 6 years have passed since we last saw each other, we talked on the phone and mail each other, he even tried to renew our relationship but I was a complete jerk. I refused. Though deep in my heart I wanted him back in my life so bad. I’m scared he wont have the same feeling like he did many years ago. People changed, I wanna tell him I love him but I just dont have the guts to tell him that. We are two completely different people from different world. I wished someone could help me out.
theres a girl i fellings for. i want to tell her but i dont know how to. when i am around her i feel something i never felt before and i cant put the way i feel about her in words. i realy need help.
i think that love is a strong addiction and comming from somebody like me its a problem to deal with i like yall kind word and stuff and its done help me out alot thank u so much and
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYBODY
LOVE QUANDRIE(LAQUANDRIA)
THERE IS THESE BOYS THAT I HAVE FEELINGS FOR I GO OUT WITH TWO BOYS DJ AND DARIUS AND I BEEN KNOWING THEM FOR LIKE FOREVER AND NOW IM CAUGHT UP IM IN LOVE WITH BOTH OF THEM AND I NEED HELP CAUSE I DONT KNO WHO TO CHOOSE PLEASE HELP ME THANK YOU
QUANDRIE(LAQUANDRIA)
AND IF YOU DONT KNO HOW TO SAY MY NAME ITS LA QUAN DREE AH
(QWANN)
i have this guy anthony i love him very much but every time i see him i cant tell him how i realy feel help!
i love some guy that i chat with on aim but i dont noe how to tell him that i liek him and that i wanna hang out with him and get to know himm…like i odnt relalli noe him but for some strange reason i just like him out of the bluE…..i want him to noe that hes the sweetest thing and he alwyas make me lagh over hte computer..and he cts liek a mature cute boy that i have ever messed around with like that..well i love u elvis,,i love some guy that i chat with on aim but i dont noe how to tell him that i liek him and that i wanna hang out with him and get to know himm…like i odnt relalli noe him but for some strange reason i just like him out of the bluE…..i want him to noe that hes the sweetest thing and he alwyas make me lagh over hte computer..and he cts liek a mature cute boy that i have ever messed around with like that..well i love u elvis,,
I LOVE YOU ELVIS
I LOVE ELVIS
i am a 20yrsold female who is still n love with my ex and i am fallin in love with someone i used to mess wit but i need help on what to do
ok im young, in my teens, so what? theres this girls, she lives about 2 hours away and i see her occasionaly when my parents go and stay with her parents. theres something about her though. ive known other girls and been in other relationships but theres something special about her. every second im with her im happy. she makes me feel good inside like no one else does. she has a boyfriend though which is kind off a bit of a dilema such as when i go and see her we try not to flirt and such. it hurts like hell inside. i dont want to be selfish though as i only see her rarely and live 2 hours away from her whereas her boyfriend lives down the street. shes hurtin me but she doesnt know it but i dont want to be selfish. she makes me feel so damn good though. like a drug but im scared of becoming addicted because i dont want to tell her how truly and deeply i feel about her as i am confused about the whole concept of love. what should i do?
I’ve been with this girl for 6 years and we always planned on getting married after we were boyfriend and girlfriend for 4 years. I’m maddly in love with her and I know I let the jealous side get to me and over react and I know if you love someone you don’t do these things, but I was just scared about losing her. I always tolled her how I felt about her and she always did the same. She hasn’t really said she isn’t mine but she says she still loves me but she is unhappy for some reason. I don’t push her into loving me but she must still loves me if she talks to me and says it to me. I just want to know what do i do, give her space or just let her go. I never felt the way I do for her and I know I never will because I wasn’t one of those lovable men before I came across her.
“say you loved someone but your feelings for them wasnt the same what would you do?”
This is what she asked me and I told her if you still loved someone then your feelings haven’t changed, but her brother tolled her this and she believed what he said. All I’m asking is what do you do about this. Her brother set her up with a date last night at his gf’s house and she came home early to talk to me. So she must still have strong feelings for me. What do I do or what can I say?
Hello, I was just wondering if you could help me out. I’ve was going out with this girl for the past three months. We broke up about two weeks ago this saturday. We were talking about us and that we both still loved eachother. She has started likeing this other guy that already has a girlfriend but is planning on breaking up with her. She asked him to the Sadie Hawkins dance that is comming up on the 10th of march. I still REALLY like her and i don’t really know what to do. If you could help me at all then i would appreciate it greatly
kk im back yeah its sad but its true i was out with her for like what…almost a month and stuff but i was tripping i mean like i liked someone else this girl named jackie ugh i would have never went out with her in my right mind..or even in my wrong mind i feel so bad for telling jackie i loved her..well actually i didnt care i felt more bad for letting hannah know this because she felt like she was like..not exactly what i wanted but she was like everything i wanted and now shes mad at me and i gotta do something bout it so please someone..help me… please! i want her back she wont go back with me cause of what i done like i didnt mean for what i did im just an ass sometimes or all the time but i really do love her..
eminem_whiterapper@hotmail.com
well i like sum guy n hes 10 years older then me n he likes me too but me n him still did stuff together but i went for a drive today n he thinks hes to old n doesn’t no if we should be together but i really want to be with him n he asked me three reasons y i like him n i told him but he said they weren’t good enough so i need three good reasons im confussed:S
i love this girl at school. i have fancied her for 2 years now but whenever i ask her out she changes the subject. im not sure how she feels because she is very flirty with people anyway. plz sum1 help.
i love this boy at school but he doesnt want to get in a relationship but just wants to fool around. what should i do????? xxxxxxxxxxxxx
I love this school, but there’s a boy who only wants to fool around and a girl who won’t directly answer the questions of a boy who fancies her. (“Fancies”? Perhaps he’s from the late 19th century.) My question is, does this hoop skirt make my ankles look fat?
Have a dear friend for 8 years…fell in love with him recently (we’ve both changed and grown alot over the years)…about 3 months ago. How does one tell him this without upsetting all that we have had…and breaking the reality we now live in…comfortably? This is all so confusing. Just want to know what to say so he knows how much I love him, but that he can say how he feels (if that means not feeling the same). I want to deal with happiness or rejection, but want to be able to break this news with a reasonable, sane, approach. Anyone familar with this…have any advice?
HELP ME
ok i went out with this guy and we went out for like a week ive been frends with him for a while before that and i really liked him but then i was stupid and broke up with him cas im scared of committment. n e way we still stayed freends and i see him on a regular basis now and i really trhink im in love with him but i know he doesnt feel the same and i msgd him but he didnt reply but he replys to normal msgs like what ya doin and stuff im so sad im movin to another state so i can not have to see him everyday what should i do :(:(:(:(:(
ive fallen madly in love with this woman but i dont even know if she has a boyfriend. she was a student in a class i teach (im 27, shes 29 i think) and so i didnt let her see it for a year. but now shes finished and on the last day of class she practically forced me to take her email and phone number and invited me to her birthday party. and i went and it was awesome and when i left (i had to run off in a hurry to go to a meeting) she was like bumping into things and grinning like a little girl, showing me out to the taxi…
i know she feels something too…
and im soooo scared because i havent felt like this since the last time i was in love, maybe 5 years ago, and that ended in such pain…
my god she is beautiful
im going to tell her i love her but i dont want to scare her off…
wish me luck! 🙂
go for it zim hope ya snag her good;luck
ok what we have to do is get drunk with the one we love and jus take advantage lol not sexually but spill opur guts bout how we feel lol text is good to lol
im fat and ugly :'(
my girlfreind broke up with me two weeks ago but im in love with her and i cant tell her. We’re complete opposites shes a good girl and i have a rep as a bad boy {just a rep} i told her i quit smoking pot but i smoked while we were going out so i lied to her and she found out i apoligized but she said she cant trust me I dont know what to do idont want her to think that im obsessive but i love her
i have such a problem now! im inlove with someone else…………………………….. jackie but shes another one of them..internet loves and i dont think she likes me because well she has a life..please help me thankyou bye.
im deeply in love with a young guy i have been pregnant by him and lost the baby i am a married women my husband has become abusive the man im in love with tells me he loves me and want to marry me i wake up with him on my mind what should i do please help me.
someone please respond i really am confused about what to do but i love my lover
Hi.My name is flash. I am 18 years old. I have been in love with this girl for like 5 years.I dont know what is it about her that totally attracts me towards her. I think she likes me but i dont know how cuz shes my cuz. I thinks there might be 1% chance that she loves me too. I`m not sure though and i`m afraid to ask. I dont want to ask her directly. Is there any other way i could find out. I have tried to get over her by even trying to date other girls but none has appealed to me as she has. What should i do?
how can i ask 4 advice
i love this girl but i do not know how i can tell her,plz reply
Hi can i ask what is a guy to do when he is madly in love with someone who is having his baby, but cant seem to find out how she is feeling about me?
I also feel that i cant trust her i want to and she says i can but its harder than i thought. There is nothing i dont like about her. Another problem is that i dont get on with any of her friends i dont know y and she doesnt get on with any of my friends either. Can any one help PLEASE?
Tina if u were pregnant with this mans baby and u lost the baby which i am sorry about. I cant imagine how u and him are feeling obviously he does really care about u, ask yourself do u feel the same way? How does ur Husband feel about all this, what was his reaction to u having another mans baby? who do u want to spend the rest of ur life with?
Wat do you do if u love sumone thats in luv wuth ur sister but shes in luv with her bf?
there is this guy at my school who i really like. he always asks me to help him with school work and stuff. he makes me feel really special whenever we’re alone, but sometimes i see him with other girls and he acts sort of the same way. how do i know whether he likes me back or if he is just using me for studying?
please write back.
hi everyone, I’m in love with someone who does not know it, I see him everyday but I can’t say anything, I don’t know I feel like if he knows it but… he doesn’t do anything to show it, I’m really in very bad situation, I cvan say that my situation it’s quit close to that of jaqi, so help us, thx
Hey, Ive loved this guy since I can remember. Hes gourgeous and can make me laugh..he is very nice with me and all but…hes my cousin…I have a problem..Ive fallen in love with him and Im way to scared to let him know how I feel…Im not even shure how he feels….what do I do??? I don’t want to wait t’ill it’s too late. Im always thinking of him…and I care for him soo deeply..help me
I need advice, I don’t know who to talk to or if I should even be posting this here. I’m so confused and need help. i was with my boyfriend for almost a year- we broke up 2 days before our one year. March 24th, 2006 we broke up.. He wanted space to think and maybe we could get back together. he promised he’d call me. But how long do I wait? How much space do I give him? I’m so hurt right now and so confused. Yesterday I made the attempt to talk to him and I asked him if he missed me .. and he said yes, sometimes. is there any hope that we’ll get back together.. how long do I give it.. he promised me he’d call me before my birthday which is may 1st- and we’ve been broken up for almost a week. I dont know what to do and I can’t seem to get this off of my mind. I told him i’d wait for him .. and that I loved him so much. I just.. I don’t know how much time to give him and when he will come back to me and talk to me. what do I do?
I need some help. I met this girl a few months ago and we’ve talked online a lot and even hung out a few times. Everytime I talk to her or see her, I have more and more feelings for her. Problem is, she already has a boyfriend. She’s helped me get over my ex, and I’ve tried to support her when she’s having problems with her boyfriend, like him practically cheating on her. When I first started talking to her about everything he’s done to her, I promised her that I wasn’t trying to break them up or anything, now I feel that getting her to break up with him is best for her, whether for her to go out with me or not. How can I tell her what I feel for her without making her mad at me? I really like her a lot and pray everyday for my chance to show her how a real boyfriend should treat her, with all the love, honesty, and happiness she deserves. Can anyone help me out here and let me know how I’m supposed to let her know how I really feel?
i am madly in love with this girl but i dont want to ruin our friendship how do i tell her i like her and would like to date her even though we haveonly hung out once maybe shes avoiding me because i told her i like her a lot and want to be with her but how do i know if she is avoiding me of just pushed away by my words?
please help i think shes the perfect one!!!
Im in love with my girlfriend, and she loves me too. Recently her ex came to visit and she still has feelings for him. So she is forced to make a decision on who she wants to be with. I’m really confused. We broke up so that she could be more objective and see the whole picture, not just be drawn to me. We still see each other, and I honestly can’t imagine a future without her. I’m really scared of losing her, and am worried that that is what’s going to happen. I don’t know what to do. Her ex doesnt live in the same state either, and i live in a different town than her. I dont even know why i’m typing this on here.
theres this girl that i have deeply loved for a long time and she nows but she says shed doesnt like me and it would just ruin our relationship but ino that if i made the first move things would change but im afraid that if i do something she will not understand and will hate me wat do i do
I have a really good friend, a best friend, and I am head over heels in love with him. I can’t seem to tell him. He has a girlfriend, that he has been dating for some time now, and he says he loves her. What should I do? I’ve been driving my mind on this constantly, I need to know what to do. If I tell him, it might ruin our friendship, and I don’t know what to do without him.
how do i tell my boyfriend i love him without sounding stupid! i just want him to know that he means the world to me and that i care about him so much and i wouldn’t hav it anyother way! but i want to sound sweet and want it to sound sooo perfect when i tell him not real stupid sounding! please help me!
Dear Ursula von jerusalem,
My dear it is you I love, and have loved for many years. I have fought vigorously to win your heart, but my time is running out my love, my heart desires you, but you do not reply. Many long nights go by, I think of you in erotic lingerie and the idea of taking off my mask and giving you a kiss and asking you to be my queen. Long have I fought the urge to have you stollen away from your current husband to fall into my arms, and embrace the love that we truly share.
Love, the leper king
PS I will buy you a horse
what happens if your ‘one of the guys’ and your in love with one of your ‘guy friends?’
AND he thinks you like him like a brother and he likes you like a sister? Should you tell him or not?
PS: would it ruin our friendship?
I have known this guy for about 8 years. We met through a mutual friend in highschool. We used to hang out a lot in HS and I had a huge crush on him then but never said anything, then his brother died and he kind of changed a lot and we both went our own ways, I left for college and only saw him once in awhile. Everytime I would see him though, even if it was months or years he was so happy to see me and it was like we had never been apart. When we are together it is like no one else is around, I feel this chemistry I can’t explain. We have always been in 2 different groups, I was with the jock types and he was not really into anything like that or any of the people I hung out with. I always thought that made a diference in highschool, and maybe thats why we were never “together” but we are older now and things like that should not matter. We haven’t hung out for ages but we are both back in the same town now and hanging out a little, we spent all of last weekend together. He always makes comments that make me think he likes me, he hugs me a lot, he touches me, I just feel like something is there but I am so scared to say anything. I am so in love with him and always have been I have to say something. It is killing me inside, especially now that I see him a lot more. I want to say something but don’t you think if he felt the same about me he would tell me? I am so confused.. I love him so much I get butterflies just thinking about him. I can’t be with anyone else bc he is who I want to spend my life with. I honestly feel that there is something special there, I have always felt it or I don’t think I would still be dragging this out. I just don’t know what to do and I am so insecure when it comes to him that I worry he will not feel the same, but I can’t go on living the rest of my life wondering “what if” Please help me as much as you can! Thanks so much..
how do you know if someone likes you!? There’s this girl I like and I can’t tell if she likes me. Everyone says to me ‘You two should so go out’ and my friend said to me ‘Don’t worry James all of us think she likes you back’. We were walking in town when me and her went into an alley way. We were hiding from everyone else 😛 so I stood there and she put her arm around me and leaned on me so then I looked round the corner to see where everyone else was and she moved to where I was standing so I turned around and saw her and I said “saw ya :)” Then my friend found us. Do you think she likes me?! Please replay or send an e-mail or something 🙁
that was ment to say reply 😛
james i think you should go for it
dont regret anything
I find it very comforting how many people have similar problems to do with love, and I hope everyone has got through them okay.
My problem is that I am best friends with a guy, but he has a girlfriend of three years. I’m not even sure how I feel about him, but every time he mentions his girlfriend or goes to see her I feel a little sad and deserted. I don’t know if I want anything more than friendship, but I know that I love him, but I’m not sure what type of love it is I’m feeling. Also, I wonder if I should tell him that I am undecided about what our relationship is. He is a very level-headed practical guy and would probably just think me silly for feeling this way even though I’ve always known he has a girlfriend. He’s so special, I don’t want to lose him.
Hey, today we had a family get together type a thing. Sounds fun right? but i have the worst problem…I think i love mt cousin!?! what do I do, ive never told anyone, ive felt this way since forever and i dont know if i should tell him or let it go…I can tlk to him okay on msn but when we get together like that, i just get really shy and I feel sad when i go home cause i feel like i should have done something…please someone help me…i need this…
Sdy.You seem to be in the same problem as me but i`m a guy so its opposite. i like my cuzin whose a girl. i dont know if she knows but ive liked her since forever.ive never told her cuz it seemed awkward.she is one of my best friends too and i didnt want to jeopardize my friend .do u think i should go for it?? for u Sdy i believe u should tell him.he`ll understand and if he doesnt it was never meant to be.
Hey flash, I think that you should let her know how u feel, if i were her id so want to know, since u guys are close all will work out. But the thing is i want to tell my cousin but hes 3 years older than me and im probably not as close as you guys are 🙁 i try to be.. we have some stuff in common but im shy with him in person, i talk to him often on msn, im just scared that if i tell him something bad might happen
Sdy
I see your problem. Well do you think hes interested in someone else? If not give it a shot. Ure gonna have to do it sooner or later. Have you tried getting over him. Just tell him how u feel and if it doesnt work out. It just wasnt meant to be. I`m telling you, most guys would certainly say yes to a relationship with a girl whose crazy about them.If he doesnt agree, screw him, there are many other fish in the sea. You could probably get better guys than him.
I feel mildly retarded for posting my problems online, but anyways: I am totally in love with this person, and I want them to know how much I love them, but whenever I feel like I should tell them, I always getting too nervous and stop talking. I have such a hard time getting the words out, especially since it’s another guy. i’m just terrified that he’ll hate me for liking him.
I fell in love with my friend. He was my classmate in NCM102. Well, he was my crush before. He became closer to me than I expected. He opens up to me about this girl he likes so much. At first, I didn’t mind about it ‘coz my feelings for him were not that strong. I didn’t know how and when… We became closer, like lovers. He tells me sweet stuff.
We constantly exchange sms, every day and night (and end it up with the word “MWAH”,a kiss…)
Before I know it, He made me fall in love with him. After several weeks, our communication stopped. It made me sad and drove me crazy..
Everytime I see him in school, he just smiles… He keeps on looking at me without even saying a word. I wanna talk to him, but I am not too confident to do it… I’m afraid that I might lose him.
I have been seeing this girl for not even a month. But as soon as we met we clicked. We both said that we felt it. I have never felt so strongly for someone so fast. When we first met we said what our expectations were in a relationship and one of them was some kind of contact on a daily basis. But she doesn’t really do that. Plus, she’s really friendly… like overtly friendly… with people who aren’t me… like exchanging numbers friendly. And I am so into her and I want to express my feelings and maybe even say the “L” word even though it hasn’t been that long. But I do feel it. But I’m doubting it because I don’t know how she feels or what she’ll say or if I’m being too clingy. And the few times that we are together it’s amazing. That spark or chemistry or whatever is there. But then at times I’m so afraid to relax around her because I don’t want to do something to turn her off. I like her that much. I’m just so into this girl… but I’m so afraid… Anyone have some advice as to what I should do?
hey falsh, thanks for your advice, il let you know if ever i decide to tell him.
i like this guy but we both go to different churches and i know my parents wouldn’t want us to be together but i really love him, what should i do?
i really love this guy…but we go to different churches and have totally different beliefs. I know my parents wouldn’t want us to be together but i love him. What should i do?
I resently met a girl who is just coming out of a really bad situation. I have only known her for 7 weeks ,and i feel a love growing inside of me for her. I tryed to express this to her and it seems to have pushed her away. The problem really lies with me because I feel that I have made a mistake by telling her this. You see it’s hard for me to let my feelings show because i have been through the ringer too. Please offer any help you can thanks.
grrr i dont no what to do i was dating someone for umm a month and about 2 weeks into it we got into some trouble and umm he had to “break up with me” and he called me and told me not to believe what he was going to say and that he would let me no what was going on later well he didnt so i believe we were really over well we wernt and we talked and we wernt well 1 day after our one month this girl called me and asked me if me and this boy were dating and i said yea well she goes that day he called u and said it was over it wasnt?? i said no he told me not to listen and he had to do that well lets say he was dating me and her for two weeks and i truly love him and him and this girl are still together and me and him still talk and he has already cheated on her with me and i dont no what o do if yallhave any advise let me no !!!
so i really like this guy ive been seeing for a month…. but hes always sayign stuff behind my back and saying stuff about other girls in front of me… i know hes kidding but i cant stand it.. and he always ays im too sensative. I wish i didnt have feelings for him but i do. I cant change that.. but i dont feel like he feels the same about me as i feel about him, and i dont want to end it. He tells other girls im anoying and blocks me on aim… this is messed up…. at the beginning he said he wasnt goning to be the one to end it and that he didnt want to hurt me…. (weve gone out before)….. but i feel like he doesnt have strong feelings for me and im just a fling.. what do i do??
Met Jeff from Michigan, 4/2001,chat room(my first mistake)he came to Penna…Aug. same year. We were happy….lost my heart to him…then…he went back, got married to someone else two months later…five years later…how do you forget? We arent young I was 51 he was 47 then….Ive moved on, but he’s in the back burner of my heart.
i love a girl so much but she is not around where i am she left me and i didint told her that i love her so what i will do plz reply
the girl i love she is in usa minesota and iam in africa kenya she went there before 3 months and she is my kozen and i dont know what iam gonna do so what do i do??
the girl ilove she is may kozen ho do tell her that i love her.wht do i do???????????????/
lost my luv – cant find no more
i have this guy anthony i love him very much but every time i see him i cant tell him how i realy feel help!
i have a problem mine is that i love this girl and we went out and and broke up and she left when she came back i want to tell her i love her but she gets off the computer and she has a b/f and she loves him and then she tells me that she wants to break up with him because she don’t do long term realthionship but she still loves him what should i do please help me because i really love her
How do u make sure that your crush is in love with u and not someone else?
I need some advice because i like this guy, and i really think he feels the same way…but he is already in a relathionship. Should I tell him that how i feel or leave it alone out of respect for their relationship?
what do you do when you are deeply in love with someone but they dont love you back and you cant get over them
there’s this girl i really love, but im afraid to tell her that i do. i’m not sure if she loves me but i still want to tell her that she’s a whole lot more than just a really good friend. i want to tell her in a way more special than just saying i love you. how should i do this?
what do you do when u love someone so much and that person knows it,but i still really need to tell him one more time so he knows exactly how i feel about him but i just don’t have the guts to tell him the trut?what should i do?
You know, I too am in love with my best friend of 6 years. He’s the most amazing man I’ve ever met and while I truly want to tell him, which I plan on doing so very soon…. Sometimes, in order to find that great love, risk is involved. If he and I are as ‘best of friends’ that we’ve been it won’t have any impact on our friendship… and really, who better to fall in love with then your best friend? I feel he feels the same about me. There is a certain connection we have that I’ve never felt with anyone else and everyone always picks up on it…. The way I see it people that post on here, if you feel it – say it! Once you do, you can’t change it – and you have to accept they could very well not feel the same. If you are prepared to hear both – then what do you have to loose?!
Cheers, Christine 🙂
this is a little bit different to the other posts but kinda along the same line…instead of telling my boyfriend i love him, i want to let him know that i know he loves me – he has never told me that he does, but i dont need him to as it shows in everything he says and does that he cares about me very much – so yeh, i just want to let him know that i see and appreciate all he does for me and maybe hopefully from his response guage whether or not i make him feel as wonderful as he makes me feel – so in other words, how do u know if someone knows you love them? and whether they know that you know they love you? (sorry i know it reads a bit awkwardly!) Any thoughts?
CHeers xx
Bee bee
how can you tell someone that your inlove with them that doest know how you feal for them and you want to tell that person but dont know how.
I have been in love with someone for this past year. I told him that I loved him first, which was werid because I have never told a boy that before. We broke one day and got back together about one and a half weeks later. We went out for one month after that, but he had move about 100 miles south of where I live and it was just to hard to stay with him. We got into fights everyday. So I broke up with him, it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I still love him and I know I will always love him, I just hope that he will always love me, and I hope that we can get back together one day.
L I HAVE A BF N HES REAL NICE HE L HOLD MY HAND WEN WE GOG SOMEWHERE HE L ALWAYS TELL ME I LUV U N ALL BUT SOMETIME HE CAN GET ON MY NERVES LYKE HE L GO UP 2 OTHER GURLS N SAY HEY CHICK WAT UP NM I DONT MIND DAT BUT WEN HE STARTS HUGGIN DEN N ALL DAT IT GETS ME SO MAD B/C 1 DAY WE WER DATIN 4 A 1 HOLE YR N HE TELLS MY MOMA DAT HE LUVED ME ALOT N HE SAID I WAZ GOIN 2 SLOW 4 M N WE GOT IN A FIGHT 4 LYK A HOLE WEEK DEBN WE MADE UP SO NOW I GUESS WE HAVE BEEN DATIN 4 BOUT 4 YRS N HE NEVER MESSED UP AGAIN B/C HE NOWS DAT I’LL BREAK UP WIT M SO PIECE OUT
How do you know when to tell someone you love them?
If you have to ask that, its not the right time – I think. You’ll know when to tell him/her – trust me. It’s one of those things, you feel at that moment. Love is a strong feeling and when its right, you’ll know.
That’s my advice to you all 🙂
Cheers,
Christine!
(I Love Rich!)
hey wat do u do if u tell the girl u really like that u luv them then she says ya i bet and i asked her y she says that all the time she said idk and her friend said y she wont say it back becuz when u really luv someone its really hard 2 say is that true and then like every week shes like its over then i feell bad then she gose up to me and says im just kidding y dose she do that 2 Just wonder later
how can i show my girl friend i really do like her to jw
But dose she really like but we broke up once and shes like i like matt more than u and then i talked to her 4 about 4 hours and then she said she likes me more than matt and she lives like 30 miles away wat do i do
if somebody was one of ur best friends and u grow to like them,then u grow appart because of a veriaty of things what do u do i mean we spent time together…i love her…but we wont see eachother 4 the rest of our lives tommorow.. should i tell her?
i dont know my feelings…
i cant decide
what am i?
who am i?
kaitlyn…..
this is to flash and sdy u both need 2 stop! flash had goo advice but listen up if it doesn’t work out u seem perfect 4 eachother!! i could STILL use some advice tho 🙁
I am scared of a proposal that this person made to me in marriage and I feel that it is not what i want at the moment, but I don’t want to hurt him. How do I tell him?
i have liked this guy for the longest time, we have done things before and we both r dating someone and we still r now. Everytime we hang out now, it seems he still looks at me like his eyes r glued. when we talk he picks on me joking around about the craziest things that dont really make sence but we laugh about it later. so wut does this mean? does he still like me but more? someone please please email me for advice.
i like this girl we talk all the time and ask how each others day went but she has a boyfriend and i think she likes me and i want 2 tell her i like her but its hard for me because she has a boyfriend and she thinks i like some other girl
Hi please give me some advices..I`m madly in love with my boyfriend who we stayed together for 6 months now. He is the first love of my life and that means the way I feel about him is nothing compared to other guys that mostly come to me asking me out. Although everytime we meet I tell him I love him, he always take me as a joke. He thinks he is forcing me to be in a relationship with him which is not true at all and I`ve told him so. I know he loves me too but the fact that he is no more intouch with me( we are in holiday) makes me feel as if he doesnt care anymore. Apparently his phone is not working, I know that, but he just couldnt make any effort to call me( Does he reaaly care about me). Myself I dont know how to get hold of him, we dont stay in the same town. Its killing me inside and in way, it brought so many questions within me. My question is, can you really love someone without caring for them? Please let me know anything..For the last three weeks I`ve been feeling so left out. Everytime I think of him I start crying I dont know why? Do you think I`m crazzy? Or do you think that is the way to say he doesnt want me anymore?
please somebody help me. its probably the only way to feel better……………….
I think the hardest part about writing is to realize what I’m actually feeling or thinking. Too ofen my senses are so dulled that it seems I don’t think or feel anything at all. Obviously, I do have unique thoughts and emotions. But what does one do when he can’t seem to find those?
I think the hardest part about writing is to realize what I’m actually feeling or thinking. Too ofen my senses are so dulled that it seems I don’t think or feel anything at all. Obviously, I do have unique thoughts and emotions. But what does one do when he can’t seem to find those?
I have a problem that I used to date this guy 5 years back, due to some problems we broke up and moved to our seperate ways, I guess it never work out for both of us because we back together, the problem with him is that he has changed a lot, he’s very jelous, he comes to my house at least 9 times a day, he checks my messages and wants to know each an evry person who calls me, to be honest, he’s becoming more like obsessed, hence what I really want from him is love. I’m not sure if I can continue with this kind of a relationship. The other challenge is that he has two kids now since we broke up and it’s not easy for me as I have none. I do not think I’m ready to be a step mom, but I would not want to loose him, what is your intake on this?
Hi M.B , in life it should not be about other people, but it should be about u, marriage is a serious committment and it’s not easy to get out of it once u committ your self, so my suggestion to is, take your time to make a decision, ask your partner to give u time ,by doing that u will not be implying that u do not love him but u will making sure that u are ready for a long standing relationship and avoiding future disappointments.
To all of you, I was just reading your e-mails, concerns and some of your suggestions one by one, it is very clear that we all want one thing and that is love. My suggestion is may be the very same people whose messages are written on this website can work something out, u can always looks as to who has a similar problem and try to find love out of that. it seems as if many of you are unhappy and if you can decide to leave all ur partners who make unhappy and date with these people that are thier messages are written, it will be better to understand them beco’s u already know of their fear, weaknesses and so foth. just thik about it, it may create happiness to some other people. it was just a thought.
I was freinds with this girl once and then me and her started likeing eachother and things got kind of twisted because we were best freinds and it got kind of romantic but we were still best freinds throu this and then i met her freind and we became freinds JUST freinds and the other girl got jealious and we stoped being freinds i just recently started talking/hanign out with her again and i really like her i think im in love with her but she has a boyfreind who i think are kind of serious and we talk about old times often and i told her i cared about her still and i always tell her she is beautiful andi want her to care about me also but i dont want to force it what should i do?
Ok…I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i love him to death…but i dont know how to explain 2 him. I mean how do i know i really love him? At least I think I love him? I tell him everyday I mean when I kissed him I felt something. Now i feel nothings there can somebody please help me i dont know what to do!!!!!!!1
I have a guy friend. And he told me that he loved me and really cared for me. But he told me that he does not like me. He said “Love is more then just liking someone” So does he like me, and want to be my bf, or is he just saying he loves me because we are really good friends. HELP ME!!!!
To loveTo love
How can i tell if a like/love me?
I like this girl who i am good freinds with not best freinds but good freinds how do i tell her i want to be with her
To Joe: hmmm…i dont know how to help you there. But if she has a bf, i would not want to make him mad. Then that might get her upset, and we dont want that to happen. Just give it time, and if it was meant to be, then something will happen. But if not, then, maybe you two were not meant to be.
Now about me and my friend. I dont know what to do, he calls me everyday, and he sends me little letters telling me he loves me. So im guess he really likes me. I just dont know how to ask him.
i have a qustion are problem i have a girlfriend that i know that she just have a lot of problems in her life and i understand that and i love her and care about her and i want her to be happy and not mad for a change but every time i get her happy something happens at her house and she call me back mad and i told her that im going to be there for her and i keep telling her things from the heart and i just keep happing almost every night and tonight she went to sleep mad at me because i didt listion to her when i was on the phone and i running out of thing to say from the heart to her yes i know that sounds stupied by i keep telling her things from the heart and i just want to know what do i have to do to keep her happy and not mad at me and at the sametime what can i keep telling her to believe me when i tell her i want to be with her plese heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp me.
theres this girl shes a good friend and she thinks im a good friend too but i dont know if i should like her or not like shes amazing but i dont want her to say no because it might ruin our relationship
I LOVE THIS BOY AND I THINK HE LOVES ME BUT SOME TIMES HE ACTS LIKE I’M KNOW USE AND ACTS LIKE I’M A SHOW OFF AND SOME TIMES HE ACTS LIKE HE LOVES ME FOR WHAT I AM.
Hi i am a guy that is talking with a girl over the phone for the last 3-4 weeks and yesterday she said unconctaly that she loved me at the end of our conversation i want to tell her that i love her and i want to know if she likes me to so my question would be that i would like to know how to tell if she has fallen in love with me plz e-mail me bak thanks
Im with this guy iv been with for about 2 months i finished my x for him because me n my x just grew apart n my bf finished his x for me cos she lied to him all the time and we tell each other we love each other and we wanna grow old n get married but wenever i tell him i love him he says stuff like ditto babe but recently we been fightin alot and hes been accusin me of stuff i know he has issues with trust because of recent relationships but he doesnt need to call me by his xs name n say stuff like ur just like my x it really hurts me n today we was talkin and he kinda just acted like we was drifting apart we didnt have a laugh n he never told me he loved me n he only gave me one kiss the whole of the time we talked i really love him and prove to him eveyday i wanna be with him n wanna share my life with him but now im confused cos of the way hes been acting…anyone help?
Hi Kissy, i think you should sit down with this guy and ask him about what he really feels about you try and make him be honest about it and then tell him how you feel also try telling him he hurts you sumtimes when he acts like your just a play thing get him to understand he hurts you if he dont change hes not worth it and u can find better
Neil..you cant find out any other way if someone has really fallen in love with you but if she proves it by telling you on the phone she loves you she must i doubt anyone would play with sumones feelings try talking to her get her to open up her feelings might be a long shot but it would be worth it right? and if you really do love her and feel good about her you should tell her dont keep her hanging
I have a friend guy and i do care for him so much but he only treated me as a best friend. he knows that i like him and fall for him, but he only wants to be friends and its really hurts me then i found out that he has a gf and he wants me to be nice to her gf… how can i tell him that i do have feelings for him and what should i do?
please help me…
i am married, but met a guy a year ago. He’s single and we both love each other very much. We meet in his place and enjoy every moment together. Can we continue in this….
it had been abt three months tat i met a gal of 17 n i m 21 so wb were in luv but now i get tat it was just infatuation and now i had got one of ma same age before one n half months so i m in such a great puzzle that what to do n not to…
im a confused 15yr old boy, i been like bad exeperiences with girls, all of them made a fool at of me, but soon i been having feelings for my friends, i never felt this way about someone like this before,his a boy as well, we met in summer school, we know each other for like a year, all though feelings started growing about two months ago, now, i just dont know what to do, i feel like i should tell him , but then im scared that he might reject me, n he says is better not be friends again, in scared, it also hurts very much, im scared… plz someone help..plz help me :{
boy_in_love15@hotmail.com this is for the poste above,and plz help me…
if you’re a girl it would probably be better if you won’t tell the guy you like or love him.why?it might make their head big.let them feel you don’t care at the start he’ll probably find ways to let you know he really cares.and you’ll know right from the start if he’s woth it or not.as for the guys?don’t be afraid to tell a girl you like her…if she shows u she doesn’t care, don’t stop.maybe she’s just seeing if you really like her.
hi i have a teen daughter who has been dateingher b\f for a year and a half, things were great in the summer with them and then school started back, they go to different schools.well now she acts different around him sometimes, she even told him she wonted to take a break for a while to think , a boy at her school wonted her to go out with him, her b\f agreed to give her time, he left crying it broke my heart,the next day she came home from school and called her b\f and said she was sorry and she loved him.he has given her a promise ring.well now she is acting the same way as before,but she still tells her boyfriend she loves him and they go out, the boy at her school knows she has a b\f ,but keeps asking her out!i dont wont my daughter to hurt her b\f, he is so good to her.im afraid she is gonna make a big mistake.any advise?
i love someone but i can’t tell him i think
he love me too i don’t no i keep inthinking about him please email me .
Ok, I have known this girl for about a year now, not really close friends but I knew her. Well about 2 months ago I got a job at the same place as she did. It all started out as friends, and then we kept getting closer and closer. I had feelings for her the whole time, and I really didnt think that she had the same for me, because she has been with the boy for 8 months. Well in the past day she broke down and finally admitted that she had feelings for me but that she was confused because she still loves her bf. I mean we text all the time and come into work early to see each other. She wrote me in a message that said:
“It’s kind of hard to explain i’m scared because I really love Dj(the boyfriend) but I always think about you and I love bein around you”. I just want to know what I should do if anything and I already know I will get hurt. Thanks
What do you do when you are in love with someone but that some is not in love with you, and that someone give you a chance to try make it work, but after eight months after in a relationship the someone leave you because she was not feel you as lover but just friends
well what do you do when you’ve just met someone and you know its right but her parents might not approve or other family members? I’m only about 2 years older what should i do?
hey .iam 15 and i know iam at young age to tell i girl i love them. but i truly love this gurl and ive told. nd she dosnt belive me. me nd her bein good mates for sum time nw and we have dated. and we are startin to get bak together. and i ve tld her i loved her for a long time and all i do is fink about her. but she dosnt belive me. nd ive tryed everything on her . can u guys give me sum advice thannks alot
What do i do if im truly in love with my boyfriend but, everytime im with him and i see someone who looks better than me and i feel like im not cute enough for him, that he needs someone who looks like there in thoses music videos with them skinny bodys and pretty faces and i feel so ugly when i see someone who is soooo pretty so basically im confused and im always putting myself down because of that and i know im cute but i dont fel like im cute enough for him so i need alot of help to deal with this.
I am inlove with this guy, and I want to tell him how I feel. I’m pretty sure he feels the same way, but I’m not sure. I don’t wanna keep these feelings inside of me. What’s a good way to tell him how I feel, without making a fool of myself.
i hav a crush on this girl and ive alredy told her tat i lik her and she says she liks me but the problem is tat i liv in florida and she livs in nebraska and tat wen she visits for the first time i dont noe how i should tell her tat i lov her.cuz im sorta nervous so can u help me?
I have been with the same person for the past 3 years of my life. I know that I love him with all of my heart and I know he loves me. But all we do is fight and nothing ever seems to work out for me and him. He is always accusing me of bitching too much, but I only do it because of the dumb things he does. I really want to make it work but i just don’t know how to. I feel like I’ve tried everything and it’s always the same ending result; him getting mad at me and me yelling at him. So I guess my question how do you know when it’s time to just let go? When two people honestly love each other but they just can’t seem to make it work, when do they just give up?
emily… a fight is like a bump in the road; you either drive over it, or one day it is fixed. If you really don’t like/love this person anymore, you wouldn’t have feelings for them. When all of your feelings go away for the person you like, then you know it’s time to let go.
I have this girlfriend that i have been dating for almost 10 months now. She used to lie and stuff and cheated on me once. It was about 2 months ago and i found out about it about 3 weeks ago. i forgave her and took her back, but she was tellin me she loved me and was the one for her but she was telling me this while she was hooking up with that other guy. now we are dating again but i dont feel like a good boyfriend because im not acting the same way because im just kinda scared to get hurt again. when i am with her i feel like the happiest guy and never want to let go but when we are apart i dont really believe what she says. because last time she said she was going out with her parents and was really going out with that other guy. she acts the same now as she did when she was lying. i dont know if she is telling the truth or not. i want to believe her but sometimes i just feel she is with me just because it looks right. ya know? i know shes in love with me but i dont know. she is all i can think about and i love her to death. i just dont know what to do about the whole trust issue. does she really mean it this time? i just feel like when we arent together she is with someone else… she says and PROMISES AND SWEARS she would never do it again and has no interest in any other guy but she said that last time? i dont know what to do. i hope she isnt telling me those nice things becasue thats what i wanna hear
i tell my girlfriend i love her all the time and i mean it and i think she loves me to but satday night i yelled at her by mistake and now were just different ='( i dont want to lose her i really love here does anyone out there know what i can do to stop this …she said she wants time apart but how much time will she need
hi james
i think u should give her time coz it was yuor foult.u need to know that pple are different and come from different backgrounds, we have those that are treated like eggs by their parents and have never been yelled at or its their nature that they hate being yelled at.what u should do is take it as normal and ask her to forgive u then promise never to do it again. what should happen in future is u shuld try to talk to her silently if there is any problem but yelling wont help coz she is not of that type. remember that there are also men who behave the same way ur gf has done so u should be worried coz it happens to everybody.
i was once a victim. i have a bf of whom weve dated for five years now. early this year we happened to be in the same town but different places so we used to meet frequently.one day he was to come home but failed and dint explin or call so i caled after two days and coz i was angry i yelled at him. he said nothing else than ‘im copming in ten miutes time’. i waitad 4 one week and when i went to his place i dint find him, i cried but it could help so i decided to give him some time. it was not so long that he came loking 4 me and asked 4 forgiveness so dont worry , if she realy loves u shell be back and if she doest loveu that might be an excuse of her leaving u, so why waste ur time on her. remember love is a two way traffic.takecare of desracteres please. it has been a nice tyme writing to u. good luck.
i have just told the guy that i love that i like him but i know he is going out with this girl penny. now he says she is the only girl he knows with a good personality..i think that is shit. she has the wrost personality!!! and i know so because she is a ‘close friend’ of mine..and boy do i hate her…wat do i do!?
i have liked this guy for the longest time, we have done things before and we both r dating someone and we still r now. Everytime we hang out now, it seems he still looks at me like his eyes r glued. when we talk he picks on me joking around about the craziest things that dont really make sence but we laugh about it later. so wut does this mean? does he still like me but more? someone please please email me for advice.
vexinsexkitten69@hotmail.com
HEELLLPP PLZZZZ SUM1!! ok, i got a gf (girl freind) she luvs me soo much and i luv her more and wen shes around me shes really happy and excited, but wen she goes to skool she feels like CRAP!! and shit!! everyone teases her at skool except 2 of her freinds and shes bootiful ders absoloutly nutin wrong wid her shes bottiful, smart everytin u could think of!! and every1 is jelouse so dey tease her… and she is veryy down these days and i try make her happy on msn coz i dun see her as much coz i gut parents… and i call her but at da moment shes happy den shes down all again so sum1 PLZZ helPP!! if u care then tell me wat i should do!!! plzz!! email me on gotaekwondo@hotmail.com
There was someone who i worked with, but is also my frieds sister. We have now both left outr work place. one night i come back from the pub and left a comment for them on myspace. sayin i was drunk and saying she was hot and what was she dong on sunday.
she replied back but i passed out by then.
I went to town the day after but was in a rush as i had to be somewhere, and she appeared out of nowhere shouting at me asking what the message was about and i told her that i left the same comment for everyone, when i didnt, then i saw the dissapointment on her face. It is not until now that I relised that I do like her in that way. I have tried emssageing her later on that day but she has ignored the messages. I dont have her phone number as I lost my phone. What shall I do as I cant stop thinking about her.
I am madly in love with a man who I saw off and on for two years. We split up once in Feb of 05 and in Sept of 05 he called me… telling me how much I was missed, how sorry he was to have hurt me like that… insisted on seeing me again… to which I agreed to. Now, we began seeing each other again.. not as socially as it once was, but seeing each other again… more private and intimate… we could talk for hours, laugh, etc. I thought things were going well. I even took a day off of work to help him out with a three hour one way road trip. To which, he left me in the car in the middle of the night to talk to his “ex” who was crying and confessing her love to him… the same woman who walked out of his life 2x in 6 months with ALL HIS things, not her things, but his. And he took her back.
My heart is crushed… and I love him oh so much. I miss him so very much. I can’t stop thinking of him. I want to talk to him. It has been 2 months and I sent him an email the other day asking for some sort of closure, to which he read (i checked) and yet, he didn’t respond.
I can feel him when I close my eyes, I can see his face, hear his voice… he’s got to be thinking of me too. God, I miss him with every ounce of my being.
How do I go about letting him know, without making a scene (cuz the only way for me to get a hold of him at this point is to go to his work, which I will not do – that’s wrong; or email him… he changed his phone # and I am too nervous to go to his house… what he shuts the door in my face, type of thing)…
I’ve never felt like this for anyone ever… I just want to know if he ever, at any one point, had any feelings for me at all… I just want to know… for closure
:'(
i really like this guy and he likes mee back but he always asks mee why do i like him like he wants to kno . and i tell him but he says its not enough & i dont kno what to tell him he asks like 24/7 =\
Well ive liked this girl for almsot 6 years and it hit me with in the last few weeks i love her… it was at a caberet a few nights ago we were danceing and i pulled her aside and i told her i love her and i asked her out she looked at me and she said ” were way to good of friends imagine wht would happen if we broke up” but i dont know ive liked her for so long and i nvr knew what it was liek to be in love until now, and i cant see me dating anyone else because she would always be on my mind,,,
I\’m 19, have just moved out to Australia by myself, im having feelings for the first time for a woman. I am engaged to a man I love in england. I cant stop thinking about this woman, she is married and has kids and is much older. What should I do? should i tell her….i barely know her
Hey, I am currently dating a girl. Me and her match perfectly. We have similar interests, hobbies, goals, and religious beliefs. Up until now we have done everything together. Except, until now we haven’t had sexual relations. It seems until recently her parents have approved of her being w/ me, but now they seem to be keeping me away from her. I am truly in love with her, and I believe she is in love with me too, but..I am afraid her parents are going to try and take control of the situation. Should I confront them? I am really confused. Help me please.
i love someone but i dont know how to tell them online on msn.. i knew him for 2 yrs and we are freinds but i need to tell him i lovehim
If someone sends you text messages on a consistent basis – very flirtatious at times – is it a stretch to think that person has feelings for you?
Hi, I was wondering if you guys could take a moment to answer a question?
I have been going to my local trendy bar/grill near work and i have fallen for the bartender there. We chat a lot when i am there but He has no idea i like him. I am to embarrassed to say anything. The thing is i am not what most men would class as girlfriend material, after i had steroid treatment for a bad immune problem i put on some weight and i’m a little plump. i think that has prevented me from saying anything. however, i can’t stop thinking about him.
I really don’t know what to do.
hope you can give some advise!
I have gone out with my girlfriend for about two months and i know i love her, i have waited for her since August when i first met her, i knew immediately that i wanted her but i dont know how too tell her how i feel towards her.. any help from you guys?
Look everyone, writing this to evrybody you don’t know and telling your feelings about love is nothing compared to what Im going through here. I’ve went out with someone for over two years ok and through all this relationship, we’ve broken up. I just need one thing to actually be in love and that is (trust) thats what love is. The way your reading this right now your probably thinking that you know much more but think hard about that because I swear to good that trust is the key to everything.
Just a little update on my posting from November… I have since talked to him… but yet to get an answer.
He finally emailed me this last week.
🙁
I am completely in love with my friend of more than 10 years. We\’ve been intimate in the past, but have never officially been in a committed relationship because of long distance. I want to be with him now, should I wait for him to make a move or should I make the first move?
I have been with my girl now since September of 06, although she would say officially December, we just told each other how we felt. if you tell someone how you feel, and they dont feel the same way, yea, it sucks; but it’s better to know than to be with the wrong person.
hi! i’m new with this thing, but since i read all your stories and everything, i am now willing to share my love story too..
so here it goes …
i have a boyfriend and we’ve been together for almost 3 years, we’re doin’ great until one day, he introduced me to his friend, they are friends since high school, he’s been here in the us for a year and been living with us, we’ve been good friends too, like always when we’re goin’ to do some shopping, he wants me to go with him ’cause he said im the only person who knows which ones will good look on him, so i chose everything for him, and sometimes he asks me out to eat out, just the two of us … and since my boyfriend works early in the morning until night, we are the ones left at home, and one day, something happened to us, we made love … i know it’s wrong because i have a boyfriend and i told my friend that that will never happen again but since then no matter what i do, all i think is about is him … i don’t know what to do… i love my boyfriend and i know he really loves me like he always says … i don’t want to hurt him but i think i’m falling for his friend, or am i? or is it just infatuation cause he is being really sweet and nice to me? what do i do?
The depth of love is unknown. Fear is common with the unknown. Would they? Could they? Its a gamble. One that is legendary and valued in this world. Life is short so make the most of it. Do not worry about the pain of loves lost. After all you would not appreciate happiness as much if you have never been touched by pain. A lasting love is one that is built it doesnt just happen. Communication and trust will design a lasting structure…for ages to come.
I am married and happily at that. I have two friends that is it. Recently there have been things in my life that I regret not letting people know that I “love” them. Now it is to late. Is telling a friend that you love them a “stupid” thing to do? Or would they appreciate the fact that I feel that way about them. One friend is basically “my brother from another mother” and the other is a happily married girl that I have the greatest conversations with. There is not anything sexual. We can talk about anything and everything. I just want them to know how much they mean to me. I am a 48 year old man and the value of these friendships means so much to me. Do you think if I told them I loved them do you think they would think I am crazy? Recently there was a suicide from a friend of my son’s and I would regret not letting them (my friends) know how much the mean to me. I have hinted “you know how much you mean to me” but I have never said I want you to know that I love you! Do you think there are down sides to this? Obviously there is no sexual inuendos between the friend that is male and there is just the fact that the one friend is a girl. Do you think she would take it as a friendly kind of love or that I am fishing for more? (which I am not). I am just wanting to share my inner most feelings without complicating our friendships. Any help would be appreciated!
Thanks for your time.
Sincerely,
MJ
dere iz dis boy when i first got into yr7 i didnt know he liked me then when i found out he did i was supprised anywayz… it got to the point where we were gonna go out and my friends were forcin me to go out with him but i was to scared and he liked me for about 5months now but he hasnt asked me out but he flirts with me y wont he ask me out is he too shy? what do you think.
plz answer sum1
i know this guy for the past few weeks,and i love him and he likes me alot.But he has a girlfriend and i’m afraid to tell.what must i do wait ?
im in a similar position as the previous post but with a little more history. ive known my friend for about 5 yrs and recently i realized i loved him. i dont mind telling him. but he has been in a relationship for about 2yrs and he is still with her. ive tried to move on but i cant. i truely believe he is the one for me. i just dont know if i should let him know. advice?
If there\’s anyone listening, I have a question or maybe just something to say. Maybe this is just my way of telling someone or something the reason I\’m constantly wiping away these tears. I know a girl who is a really good friend of mine. We\’ve spent alot of time together lately because she just broke up with her boyfriend. It was her first serious relationship and the seperation really really hurt her. I gave her advice and did anything to take her mind off the break up. I come to realize that I am in love with this girl. She\’s everything I could ever want in a woman. She\’s smart, funny, outgoing and I think she\’s beautiful. Put me in a room full of models and all I see is her. Let me see her hurting and I can\’t stand it. I fear that if I tell her, I\’ll drive her away. I wish I was made of glass..maybe then she could see me on the inside. Thank you for listening
how do you tell or show someone you love them if you cheated on them? because i really love my fiance so much but i kissed this other guy and i dont know what to do to show my fiance i love him and dont want to loose him . what must i do?
Since i was little in first grade, i have always had a crush on this girl named Elexa. She has to be the most prettest girl alive, and in my class. Right know i am a freshman. And i have strong feelings for her, but when im with her i have even more. I am one of the most popular kids in my class! And so is she, but like girls in my school, well like freshman girls are going out with upperclassmen. But the point is that she is going out with a sophmore guy Named Dee, and at first he was i nice guy for like about 3 months. Once they started having sex, like he started ignoring her treating her like shit, fighting, in all they have broken up 3 times and are still going out this very day. My best firends mom, hates the kid, and would like it that if elexa broke up with him because he treates her like shit and he doesnt diserve her. Like also she might think that theres no one better for her, but thats not true cause serioulsy she could get the hottest kid in highschool if she really wanted. So me, my firends and my best friends mom are trying to convince her to break up with him. but she really likes the kid, and i guess the kid sometimes treats her good, but if she made a list on the good and bad things, the bad would win. She also sleeps over there, goes to his house like every time, and dee gets jealous if she like hits on other guys or like if guys hit on her. So how could i tell her that i really like her and i could like treat her good and i would do anything she wants. because i like her so much! Like my friend is tell me to tell her and i want to but i dont think i have the balls to do it or just like how to approach things and not fuck it up, so that we dont become friends anymore. so if u could please help me out i would apretiate it VERY MUCH!
I have been thinking alot about this guy I have posted about three times now. He is EVERYTHING to me. EVERYTHING. He and I have been on again/ off again for near three years now. I cannot imagine my life without him in it. Everyday it is a struggle for me to be missing him… wanting him… and needing him in it. I know, I just KNOW, that he, too, feels the same. There is just NO WAY possible that he cannot feel this way about me too. I feel it when we are together, I know he feels it too. All of my life I have been searching for a soul like his… a heart like his… a mind like his…
How do I just TELL him that he is all I ever wanted in a man? HOW!?
At the beginning of this year I met this really cool guy named Bryan. He was everything you could want in a guy. He was funny, smart, cute,and always knoew how to make your frown turn up side down. I didn’t start having feelings intil I knew him for a couple of months. I knew he had a girlfriend who he talked about all the time and loved with his whole soul. Right now you are probably thinking ” Well, of course a guy like that would be taken”!! Well after knowing him for several weeks and sitting by him at school every day, we started getting close. He told me everything and I told him everything. One day he was sitting at his desk reading a letter and just started crying!! I asked what was wrong and he sayed his girlfriend just dumped him. I felt really bad for him but at the same time I was REALLY happy. We wrote back and forth to each other for months. Sometimes filling up 10 pages a day!! So you’ll probably thinking ” Whats the problem? Juliet has finally found her Romeo and will sail off into the sunset together and live happily ever after.” WRONG!! There was just a little problem. He was still madely inlove with his EX!! Most of those pages were filled of him saying that he still loved her and was going to win her heart back. Talk about crushing the moment!! During those weeks that I knew I him I FELL HARD, I mean HARD. Like, fell so hard don’t think I will ever be able to get back up again kinda thing. He had no idea that I FELT that way about him. So here I was inlove with this guy and all he could talk about was how much he was inlove with this other girl. To get to the point fast, one day we got into this huge argument. About how he treated me like someone on paper and then acted totally different around my friends. He told me that he had no idea that he was treating me that way. I went home and thought really hard about what I said to him. So, I wrote him a really long letter and saying that I was sorry and I still wanted to be friends. The next day I planned on giving him the letter. But one of my friends told me that he had graduated early. So right there I felt like I was going to DIE!! I sat there for a long time and wandered if things would be differently if I would have forgiven him sooner. All of a sudden he was right there at his desk. He scared me half to death!! He had to get the rest of his things before he could go. I gave him the letter which confused him alittle. I smiled and told him bye. I didn’t hear from him for 3 weeks. (I included my phone number in the letter.) When he called me I was really surprised. We talked for 4 hours like we had never been away from each other. Our birthdays our five days apart so I celebrated my 18th and he celebrated his 19th birthday together. I have recently visited him where he works. He has alot of bothers and sisters so he decided to get a job that involves working with children. The only problem is: I havn’t told him that I’m inlove with him!! I still feel that he is still inlove with his ex. He has sent me a couple of e-mails and he still talks about her even though she has moved on and has a new boyfriend. I don’t know how he feels for me. I know he trusts me and thinks I’m a great friend but does he think I can be more to him? My question is, how can I get him to move on and realise there is more than just one girl for him. To realize that I’m the one who has been there for him when he needed someone. I want to tell him how I feel, but I just don’t know how!! He needs to know. He deserves to know. He’s everything to me. I just don’t want to lose him. I guess I’m afraid he wont feel the same way. I just want this feeling of not knowing how he feels to go away. I just don’t understand how he can love someone so much and that other person not feel the same way. I know he wasn’t ready to let go when she broke up with him, but its been a long time. He needs to move on. I just want him to be happy. And I want to be happy too. With him. I just need some help. I don’t know what to do. I love him so much. I just want to be with him. Is that so wrong?
I have been in love with my cousin for about ten years now and It’s bothering me so much that I am set on telling her my feelings but she is 5 years older and I cant seem to muster up the words?
I’m in quit a little problem. Theres this girl who I’ve been dating for roughly a month and a half. I’m in love with this amazing girl named Miriam. The thing is…I honestly don’t think that she likes me enough to continue the relationship with me. I want nothing more than to be with her and have a healthy relationship. She seems distant from me nowadays. The thing is shes always been shy so I can’t tell id shes not into me or not. I like her for more than just superficial reasons. Shes the reason I can play music or write what I feel. Shes my muse. How can I get her to open back up to me?
I’ve been talking to a guy from out of state for a few months now, and I really, truly, honestly love this guy. We dated for less than a month (he’s not some kind of sexual predator, i’ve seen him on cam, talked 2 him on the phone, written letters back and forth, talked 2 his friends and his mom) before I broke up with him. I only broke it off because I realized I still wasn’t over my ex, whom I dated for several months and had a sexual relationship for the first time with and I didnt think it would be fair to this guy I was dating, because I knew i still cared about my ex. While we were dating (and even after) he told me he loved me, and I eventually said it back (again). This boy is amazing. I know people say that all the time, but he’s…wonderful and literally takes my breath away. I’m not a hopless, die-hard romantic, and I’ve had my heart broken pretty badly, so it’s really hard for me to trust people, but I trust this guy. The problem: He is (also) still in love with his ex and is trying to get her back(she broke up w/him after he told her he loved her). I want him to know how I feel SO bad, but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do, and if it is…I have no idea how to say it, because I broke up with him and treated him pretty bad afterwards, but he means SO much to me and I’d never want to hurt or put him in an awkward position.
If you have any advice, feel free to let me know.
TO: Nicole | April 12th, 2007 at 1:24 pm
Hi, I was just reading your post tonight. Wow, doesn’t that just hit the nail on the head? It is sort of similar for me… except I’m much older than you and the games still are played, just like that. All is fair in love & war. I’m sorry that you feel like this… it must be truly painful for your heart, as it is mine. I have NEVER told the guy for almost 3 years now that I, too, love him with all of me… every ounce of my being loves him. But, like you, I am scared to death that if I tell him, I could lose him forever. If I could ever muster up the courage to just TELL HIM… I think I could just cry when I said it, cuz I have kept it inside for so so long. I think of him every night before I go to sleep. I imagine his face, his eyes, his everything.
There is a song that says: “It’s better to love and lost than to never have loved at all”
It is from a cheesy 80’s hair band, but hey, the lyrics fit the sitch.
I just wanted to write to let you know that you are NOT alone.
~ C. W.
iv been with my boyfriend for a year now an i feel like im always doing something rong im constantly appologizing when i havent done anything to say sorry for i love him to bits but he makes me feel like crap, wat should i do?? xx
how can you tell a man that you like him but never knew it until after you drifted as friends- when he, possibly, thought that there was no hope? and how can you tell him that you can’t stay friends because you want something deeper? a friend is confused because i over reacted to the fact that he never calls me anymore…. he is still very nice to me when i see him… but i can’t be his friend. i think i fell for him hard.
Heartbroken by the Beach,
i know as hard as it may seem….. whats best will happen…. it hurts sooo much. especially when your not sure what she thinks of you.i am in that same situation except its the other way around. and the situation is so complicated. so many things happened in the middle its a bit too late to fix it unless he tries to talk to me. i really want him but i think i pushed him away by my fear and insecurities. if she shows signs go for it before it\’s to late. good luck.
p.s: did i say how much i love this page? it honestly helps you feel better to know that people are going through the same thing….
Well here is my story. I liked this guy forever and I still do. He finally asks me out, and we have a really nice time. We’re ok for a couple of weeks, then I guess I start acting cold (but I don’t mean to its just that its really hard for me to say high and smile in the hallway since I care so much for him and this is the first relationship I ever had.) and then he does the same thing. All the while we still talk, and after 5 weeks of him not talk to him in school I ask him if he’s mad at me because he was sort of ignoring me. Then he said he’s not, and that he just didn’t want to be a pest. Then we were ok for another week. Now he’s acting all cold again, and not talking to me. I really don’t know what to do. I care so much about him, and I just can’t get myself to say that I do.
i told him finally. surprisingly i haven’t received a straight answer. and i was too nervous to ask what he felt. it feels so much better now that i told him. we hung out the whole day and danced all night but i guess just as friends. i am leaving soon… i hope i get over him now that i told him how i felt and it didn’t work out. we are still friends, but we are both moving to different places. who knows, if life reunites us again then why not, other wise it’s just nice to know that we enjoyed what ever time we were given. i am going to miss him….
how are you supposed to tell someone that you love them and truely care for them if you dont have the guts to tell them up front
Oko I have been best friends with this guy for 3 years last december i lost my virginity to him….and its a secret…. i love this guy noi matter what and i dont have the guts to tell him … so the other night when i was drunk with him i tol him i loved him and hes all like stop playing then later i asked if he loved me and he said yes… i told him i would tell him the next morning when i was sober but i didnt have the balls to….and i told him when i was drunk i didnt have the balls to tell him when i was sober… .but hes a lil player and has all of these girlfriends but he says he doesnt have sex with them and i am noit sure if i believe him i want to soooo bad… I know I Love Him what should i do….. HELP SOMEONE PLEASE THIS WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE IS A SECRET SO NO ONE KNOWS THE ONLY WAY I CAN TALK TO ANYONE IS IF THEY DONT KNOW WHO I AM…… AND ME AND THIS GUY ARE THE ONLY 2 PEOPLE IN THE WORLD THAT KNOW…. AND HE IS 2 1/2 YEARS OLDER THAN ME THATS OK….. NO WAIT I DONT CARE ABOUT THE AGE JUST HELP SOMEONE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had been in relationship for past 7 years. We both love each other a lot. But his mom hates me. Even my family do not like him, but my parents are not so much stubborn like his parents. Due to millions of family problems, I had to finally tell him that we can not continue the relationship.. He was completely broken.. he had never expected that I will leave him like this. In a month, I realised that I made a huge mistake, and I want to save my relationship.. But I hv hurt him a lot, and now he’s not ready to come back… I cant see my relationship breaking..He dont even pick up my phone. We are in two different countries, miles apart and there is little I can do.. I cant live without him.. please help!!
I was with a guy i loved for awhile now. We became friends with a girl and her boyfriend and things went down hill from there.i would call her to vent to her about my boyfriends brother, i was feeling left out and that he was always around when we went place, seemed i could not get away. Well everything i said she went and told my boyfriend and he moved out last week. Then he called me today and told me that we are breaking up. but he still loves me and there is no one else, says he will be there for my son that has called him dad and he will be there for our unborn child. I tryed to tell him that i have changed and that i have seen things that i didnt see before, but still he doesnt want to be with me right now. I dont know what to do, my son has been cring and mooping around all day and im scared he will not give me chance to show him ive changed, what do i do or say to him?
About a year and a half ago my husband walked out and I was devastated, he was my world! Since then I have been on dates but recently I met this wonderful man tall,goodlooking,kind, affectionate,domesticated, sensitive everything my heart has desired since the breakdown of my marriage! I have told him I love him but after 4 mnths together I am not ‘in love’ with him! I don’t pine after him, when I am going to see him I don’t get butterflies. Whats happening? I think that I should end the relationship, He really is into me though. HELP!!!!
gemma,
Seema like u can move through relationships quickly! Give uself some time, and things will be alright. If you dont really feel love for this person, than its better that u leave him now itself.. Also its important to find, how much he loves u. If hes not the right person for u, than leave him now itself, before u r drawn into more disappointments..
Life is sooo full of problems.. reading to every1\’s problems I feel my problem is nothing compared to them..
ne ways.. wish u all the best with ur life..
lets just say, you were with your boyfriend for one year and I’m talking, exaclty one year, throughout that year you shared many surreal moments and life changing situations involving more than happiness. Even though throughout that year, words were unsaid, which we didn’t really intimate with. Lets also say, he treated her better than she treated him, as if she actually was his royal highness. Not mentioning by then we already committed our love towards one another and was adament that what we had would stay.
But then, she made a few mistakes which cost almost everything including her life. She lyed, not about anything drastic, no cheating involved, just a simple lie. Which didn’t exaclty turn out to be simple. He was cool with the fact I lyed and he knew why she did it as well; he was very understanding actually.
Even though, because it was drastic facing with the thought that she lost almost all her happiness and everything she’s ever longed for, she made matter worse by being childish.
“Why don’t you find someone else that will make you happy” – she said, knowing that he still loved her. Mixing with his thoughts… all because she couldn’t face the fact she had to go on without him.
Finally, they made up, they become really close friends. He found himself another girl which everyone considered her to be a re-bound, even he admitted to it, but he still had feelings for her.
when they were together, she tryed explaining to him why she did what she did and what could she do to try and make everything ok, he explained a little, he said he was hurt, real hurt.
A month later, he split up with his new girlfriend because she wasn’t what he wanted, is it wrong for her to think she’s possibly still in there?
He also explained, that she didn’t try and get him back enough and that if she wanted him back so much then she would fight for him, which she did try and do.
If anyone has taken the valuable time to read this, i’d be much greatful if you could re-ply and help with this situation, prefribly “How she could show to him she’s learnt from her mistakes and prove she’s everything he needs”
x
i love this boy who i always talk to but i never confess to him because im affraid that he will tease me. im also afraid to ask him out cause if he says no then he will know that i like him, which would be very imbaressing to me, because all of his friends are my friends. all my friends are mainly boys so it would not work out. i always have the urge to ask him out on msn but i chicken out because we act so serious. he is the cutest boy anyone would ever meet, he has brown hair with blond streaks, green eyes, as tall as me , and hot lips. im always in his house in his room, on his computer, anything he doesnt care he lets me do any thing at his house but if its some of my friends or his friends he gets all crabby. i am the only one who can make him un crabby. i think he knows that i like him but im not shure about it though.the sad thing is, is that he has a girlfriend who is the most ugliest person ive ever met. she is a brat, and is the sister to one of the boys in my class. she hates me but i dont care its sorrta a battle between us for him. ill do anything for him if i could just kiss him once but i always just freek out.
well i think ill be done typing for a while and go back to my normal life.lol.
go for your dreams and dont hold back like me.love ya *smooch*.bye. xoxoxoxoxoxo!!!!!lol.lol.lol.lol.lol.
SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER THIS FOR ME I NEED HELP I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
Oko I have been best friends with this guy for 3 years last december i lost my virginity to him….and its a secret…. i love this guy noi matter what and i dont have the guts to tell him … so the other night when i was drunk with him i tol him i loved him and hes all like stop playing then later i asked if he loved me and he said yes… i told him i would tell him the next morning when i was sober but i didnt have the balls to….and i told him when i was drunk i didnt have the balls to tell him when i was sober… .but hes a lil player and has all of these girlfriends but he says he doesnt have sex with them and i am noit sure if i believe him i want to soooo bad… I know I Love Him what should i do….. HELP SOMEONE PLEASE THIS WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE IS A SECRET SO NO ONE KNOWS THE ONLY WAY I CAN TALK TO ANYONE IS IF THEY DONT KNOW WHO I AM…… AND ME AND THIS GUY ARE THE ONLY 2 PEOPLE IN THE WORLD THAT KNOW…. AND HE IS 2 1/2 YEARS OLDER THAN ME THATS OK….. NO WAIT I DONT CARE ABOUT THE AGE JUST HELP SOMEONE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i need help i miss this guy. we were best mates. he knows i like him and hes ok with it. we had alot of things in commin. hes really sweet and funny to me. we usally hang out alone. but since he left for high school we havent talked in months. ive been too scared to call him. should i call him and tell him i still like him?im confused and very sad. just a bit of advise. a bit. a tad PLEASE??????????????I CANT STAND IT!!!!!!!!
come on guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i like this guy no in love with this guy. we had alot of things in commin and we sometimes hung out together. once i was doing hoops with a basket ball and he came along a took it of me and showed off all his tricks when i was tring to get it back. he know i like him but he was okay with it. also one time is went up to him and said i liked someone else(which only lasted an hour then totally forgot it happend) and he just sat at his desk just looking at his hat as if he was going to cry but didnt. every time i walked past his desk when he was at it he leans back and makes a cute silly noise. or when i slap hime for being cheeky hell do a little squeal and then laugh. i miss him so much. every thing at school reminds me of him. i have his phone number he knows but im to scared to call him. we havent talked in like 6 months should i call him and say i still have feelings for him. if so what should i say
I have a boyfriend and i really love him heaps,but sometimes he gets really pissed of with my ex,because my ex is still madly inlove with me and my ex rings me up and cryes on the phone because he cant have me and hes jealous and my boyfriend is jealous of my ex and my ex is trying to break us up,then there is this chick who likes my boyfriend and she keeps trying to break me and my boyfriend up and me and my boyfriend are sick of it…what should i do???
Help.
Met this really nice guy. He is five yrs younger, been married twice. I REALLY like him.My kids love him.They have told him so.He told them he loves them.Everything was going great.So I told him that not only had my kids fallen in love with him, so had I.No response except silence.Very rarely speaks to me. What am I going to do? If he would just say he is not ready for that, fine.If he would say that it is not what he is after that would be okay….but silence. He was the one that started the relationship talking about a permanet relationship.If I am not the one, then that is fne.I am a big girl and can handle it.
im only 17, but i think i might be in love with my best friend. ive always been awkward around girls in the sense that i cant tell them how i feel, so what i did was write a play based on my feelings, and everyone whos read it seems to really like it. ive talked to some friends who know how i feel about this girl, but they havent been much help.
what should i do?
What happens when you love someone who is leaving? As in, to another country?
What happens when you don’t know how to tell them how you feel?
I’ve been really sad because all I can think about is how he is leaving in January.
This is a hard, my best friend…whom i love, has just finished with her boyfriend because he had another girlfriend…tryin to impregnate the worlds women population. Anyway we have been friends for a little over a year now, and we have slept together, and i bet your thinkin whats the problem, well its the fact that she wont move on from her ex-boyfriend, i mean i used her phone the other day, and i noticed that her last 20 calls were made to her ex. Supposedly the guy she is sick of and if she saw him again, she would kill him. Ive told her how i feel, i know its corny to say but when you meet that right person, you just know…..everyone reacons that we should be together, but she just cant get it into her head, what she actually wants. Hopefully the new year, ill know where ill stand. But how many times should i try and get with her, before i should just walk?
I have this boyfriend i have been dating a year and a half and i only have feelings for him on and off, he’s the sweetest guy i’ve ever met and he tells me he loves me and compliments me, but i feel like he’s more of a best friend or brother, my heart is leading me towards a lot of other guys that i feel fluttery around and my bf dosen’t get jealous but i feel kind of sufficated than when i tell him i do, he becomed too careless and i love him more when i’m not with him whAT SHOULD I DO!?
The Love of my life is the last love i shall have for her i would give the night sky too, would give my life for, for she is my other half, she is the one that makes me complete and whole…Love you baby face
i would like to tell mike paahana my sisters bf that i luv him he is so hot i think he is the man much more a man than jordan
what do you do when you have known someone for about 4 months n u guys have become really close…and she knows i like her but she doesnt kno i think its more than like..i think its devoloped into love but she has a gurlfriend n im supposed to spend the night with her but i dont kno if i want to cuz i dont kno how to tell her what i feel inside what do i do??
ps ima lezbian if u were wondering lol
i know a girl since childhood,and we both went to the same school.i started to have the feelings that i love this girl,but i’m afraid if i express my feelings,she will snub me and will never want to see me again.pls how will go about it because anytime i set my eyes on this girl,i fill i am not the same.
Ive been reading alot of the post on this site before writing this one, and i feel that my situation is different from any other situation here, thats why im taking the time to write this.
ok..where do i start. Ive had this girl on my msn for a couple of months, she just added me someday without ever chatting.. until last week. She asked me how i knew her, and i told her i knew “Mike” and we ended up having a long talk, about music and games and stuff. By the time we ended the chat we had become, from my side..i would say pretty good friends, and we kept on chatting now and then for the next days, and even small things, like that we shared the same favorite car, we had same taste for music and our birthdays wore just 1 day from eachother was a big thing to me. She told me about a online community that she wanted me to join, and i had already added her in another one, and i found lots of pictures of her, and she was just so beautiful in all of them, it felt like live was not worth living if i could not be with her.
Now some people would probably have said come on, go for it and tell her how u feel. But of course its not gonna be that easy..First of all, ive never been any good with girls.. ive barely had any and friends that are girls for the last 5 years, and ive been moving around several times, even between countries since then. And because im very shy.. its not easy for me to become friends with girls, whenever im talking to a girl, i become unconfident and i dont know what to say. Ive never had a girlfriend, but because ive moved around quite alot, its never been a problem telling people i used to have..and its been almost a thing i had to say in the end, or people would look at me and say, whats wrong with u? are u gay or something, i know thats not so, and my very few friends know i like girls, but instead of trying to explain.. i just take the easy way and lie to them, its none of their business anyway…but it just make me feel better because i dont wanna be looked at or being a outsider, in one way i dont give a shit about what anyone is saying or thinking about me, other times i do, and when it happens its hard for me to control myself, because i know they are right, i am an outsider, and as i see..theres nothing i can do about it, its too late.
Back to this girl, shes very special to me, and i dont know what i should do.. ive only talked to her over msn and seen a couple of photos of her, but still it seems like shes the right one for me..but i dont know what shes thinking, i think she likes me, but i dont know how much, if its even worth a try or if im only making a fool of myself, because the think is that she lives in Uk, shes got her own life.. a week ago she didnt even know my name, and on top of it all im not very good at english, so its hard for us to communicate properly. U might be wondering where im from now, and ill just tell u i live about 600 miles away from her..and i guess i dont have to tell u that having a relationship with someone that far away, whos also talking another language seems very distant, maybe not even possible, even if we both wanted it.
I am 18 years old and could acually move there if i wanted to.. but for what? or course i like to think that shes the one im gonna share my life with, we all do when we are in love.. but what if shes not the one i think she is.. or the other way? what would i do then? what about all the other parts involved in all this, parents and friends, how would they react? Afterall, we have only known eachother for less than a week, and even tho i i feel that she cares for me, and just might be interested.. i got no idea what to do.
My friend.. “mike” is a friend of her, they go to the same school, and me and him have known eachother for more than a year, after we meet on a MMORPG, i recently retired myself from that game, and because we dont have much in common, except for that game and we share the same music taste, i dont know how long we can acually be friends, unless we meet in real life.
Today, not talking to him every day and be friends dont seem very likely, but ive seen it many times before.. me and my friends slowly growing apart, and in the end they are just a name on my contact list on msn. BUt i know he would back me up and help me if i choose to tell her how i feel, but what can he do? he cant move her closer or make her speak my language, but maybe a friend backing me up is all i need.. i dont know, cuz ive never had any very close friends, at least not that close, and im not as open as i feel everyone else is, im having a hard time finding tmy good sides and are very unconfident in general.
Ive also planned a trip to Uk this summer, ive been planning it for the last 2 yearsm and now when i know this girl i think im acually gonna go, and meet her and “mike”. At least if i do, i would be able to find out if shes interested at all and i would probably be able to be friends with both of them for many years.
Thats all i wanted to write for now, and im hoping that someone will comment on this, give me some advise or tell me what i should so, or maybe this helps just u to make up ur mind.
I think maybe someday im going to link my friend this site, and maybe hes gonna look at this post and say to himself that its gotta be me that made this post, i know most of u thinks something like WHAT?? he dont even tell his friends how he feel, but trust me, its not always that easy, specially when some of ur best friends if people u have met over the internet, that u most likely will never see, because how pachetic is that? I just take people for who they are without judging them, and hope whoever reads this can do the same about me.
I would like to thank the admins on this network and everyone that have posted before me, ive never let someone this close to me before, and ur posts encouraged me to tell u my story too. and at last, im no special person, im just the average guy u meet on the street every day, trying to find and achieve the meaning of life.
Ok.. it was not the last thing..u, “mike”, u know who u are and when u read this, think carefully about what u tell me after uve read it, i dont wanna fail again.
I am still in love with my ex girlfriend. We dated for three years and very loving, caring, passionate, honest and trustworthy relationship. Really there was nothing wrong with it( i have been in a handful of long term relationships) although it was long distance. We broke up because I postponed a planned trip for work reasons and after that trip she was to move in with me. Or at least into the same city. After a couple/few months we finally broke up although we really broke up when the trip was postponed as I never saw her again for more than an a couple hours.
It has been close to a year, we have been talking again for a couple weeks almost everyday after she had contacted me. It should be known that over the course of the year we had emailed greetings over the holidays etc. We have both dated other people and have talked about our ex’s but not in great depth as i dont think either of us want to hear about them.
Point being, how do i tell her I am still in love with her and want to see her again? Can I? Should I?
Well i really like this girl name sarah and we are datin now but my family is makein her feel unwelcome i think and i just need to know how to tell her how i feel about her and let her know i don’t care what anyone says i love her no matter what i need some advice i really love this girl and now i have a feelin she is going to leave me because of my family how do i get her to stay plz help if i loose this girl i don’t know how i will live when im around this girl i just fall in love evenin deeper with her and not being around her for just 2 days is like half of my life is gone and blank when im around her i feel go inside so plz girls help me i don’t want to loose her so plz help me i feel like im half dead without her by my side
There’s this girl i started liking, in the past ive treated her like crap but then fell for her. I’m not sure if she likes me, i started treating her nice and shes invited me to events with her friends that i don’t even know. Each time we are alone, i have the urge to say i like but chicken out at the end because i am afraid that it will destroy our friendship and make it akward to look at each other anymore.Are these any signs? her sleepign on my shoulder, touch hands? hugging? Any advice?
i went out with this guy for like 3 months & i like loved him & he felt the same way, but one night i went out and got drunk and cheated on him by kissing and giving another guy head, like a week later he slept at my house and i went to get my hair done and he got on my computer into the convos i had, & read about what happend.
he broke up with me bcuz he sed he couldnt look at me the same after what i did to him, well its been about 8 months and i still love him 🙁 he has had another girlfriend for about 6 months and he seems like he really loves her. is there anything that i can do to get him back? anything i could do or say? or should i just keep trying to move on?
Sometimes people don’t tell they love someone beacuse the one they love are already happy with someone else. (Now i mean love with a boy to a girl).
But always is it good to tell that we love them, but not to often! Then the words have no meaning.
I am telling the truth so you guys don’t think Im a brave man… I can’t do it either! Its to hard and I now why it is it for me right now.
Love is all we need, people! But who is the one for us? Thats a good question!
————————-
Sarah: If you love him, let him go! You messed up, thats fathe and means you and him isn’t the one for eachother.
————————
blah: Tell her that you love her, but say it careful and in the right time. And also tell her that your sorry for treated her like crap before.
Give her a present or ask her out someday.
/Matheus – Don’t need to resplay me, I am not coming back here anymore… Have a nice love life!
i like this guy from my college, he also is a friend of mine, he seems shy but tries to act cool around his mates, he is very nice towards me and likes to flirt with me, but when i try to make the move towards a relationship he seems to back away, he never hurt my feelings or if he did he appoligised, im confused i dont know whether he likes me or not, i really want to tell him how i feel but i dont know if i should bother telling him,
I really love this girl. I cant stop thinking about her. I dont know how she feels about me though. We just recently hung out at my friends birthday party (im 15/grade 9 shes 14/grade 8) drunk and we were together the whole night. We we holding each other the whole night. We layed outside together for about an hour. She was cold and tired and i kept tickling her side to keep her awake and laying with her to keep her warm. It was a great night, but my problem is i dont know if she will like me any other time than at a party. I hope to hang out with her again soo because this feeling is driving me insane. I know im young but if anyone has any advice i would love to hear it!
EVA_N_BYRN_E@hotmail.com
hey, i need some help i love this boy who loves me and he wants to start being boyfriend and girlfriend and i do too but the problem is that he is 5 years older then i am. Can anyone please tell me what to do? I want to be with him but i dont want him to get hurt nor do i want to get hurt. If u have any answers Pleasee email me. and plus he is taller and skinner then i am :[ i dont know what to do. well if u have any answers please email me.
i have feelings for this one girl and everytime i try to say something to her I just can’t seem to find the words. Sometimes I find myself staring at her I cant seem to stop any advice?
p.s. i think i already posted the same one but i cant seem to find it
Ok, so i really really like this girl. But i don\\\’t know if she feels the same way. I can\\\’t stop thinking about her. She is the last thing i think of at night and the first thing i think of at dawns first light. Ok so maybe that sounds abit corny but you get the picture. I can\\\’t look to the future without picturing her there with me. I\\\’m desperately in need of advise, I just want to be with her all the time. It\\\’s not just lust, i really love being with her. Please help me, what in the world can i do?
I really like this gurl but i dont know if she feels the same for me.We we are together it like everthin just stops.Please help me out what do i do?
Oh my God! Listen to yourselves! If you love someone, TELL THEM! NEVER hide how you feel. NEVER cheat. NEVER live. Who wants to start a relationship that way?
Be honest and be yourselves. We all deserve that. We have to bee ourselves before we can matter to anyone. If that\’s not enough for the other person then it\’s NOT MEANT TO BE!!! Deal with it! It hurts, but life goes on. As long as you are breathing and your heart is beating, there is hope. If not for this \
lately i\’ve been seeing this guy that i potentially love and i messed up huge the other night, i went over to another guys house and one thing lead to another, i\’m sure you get the picture, when i got home the next day i felt sick to my stomach and i couldn\’t even look at myself, right away i left a message for the guy that i\’m( i was) seeing and told him everything and how sorry i am and i don\’t know what on earth i was thinking, but it mmade me realize how much i really do like him and i\’ve appologized over and over and over again and he doesn\’t understand that i will never do anything to hurt him again, like we dated for 6 months last year and things didn\’t work out but we\’ve spent this year thinking about eachother nonstop and we finally just now decided to get back together and i go and screw it up.. i\’m at a loss for hope because he said he wants to sleep on it, and i think that if he keeps thinking about it hes just gonna make it worse and end with me completely…and i can\’t handle it, like my heart is breaking and i just want him to know how much i really do care about him, i feel like a weener confessing all this on here, no offense to all you other people, and i know i\’m not in a position to give advice but to all of you who just love someone and haven\’t told them, try it! i\’m sure if they\’re with you and have fun with you and you guys enjoy yourselves that there\’s a chance that they do love you and maybe are too scared to say it too, don\’t waste your life hiding your feelings from someone, look how it turned out on my end, i hid my true feelings from this guy for so long and now there\’s no way of convincing him how much i really do care about him and i could lose him forever. please don\’t hesitate to express yourself.
I have been best friends with this guy for 3yrs. I told him how I felt about him and now he won’t talk to me. He say he needs some space from me. It really hurts because he says he will call me and talk about things but when he is ready. But it’s been like 14days now. How long do I have to wait? I feel like he is killing me inside. And so much stuff has happend and I really need my friend. After I told him and he stoped talking to me, I found out my brother was doing herion and crystal meth. then I found out 2days after that, that my cousin is in the hospital for trying to commit suicide. right now I wish he would talk to me. I wish I had him to talk to about things like I did before. with everything going on at once, I feel like dieing. I don’t know what to do.
well i have read all these letters but none of them relates to mine i know these girl for four or five years she tells me one year from now that she loves me but i never heard it very well then she lives she thinks that i never heard it then in this year i told her brother a sercet that i loved her sister then the next day i meet her brother tells me that she doesnt love me i think she didnt want to say it because she shy and im postive that she said i love u before anyways everytime i meet her she is shy she doesnt look at me when shes not looking at me shes thinking of something i dont know what but it has to something with me.Then the next day her sister tells her to bump into me and say sry i didnt mean it she did it i was ok with that but im thinking does she love me or not or is she shy when i never told her brother that i loved her she was talking to me me confidenence and everything i just want to tell her that not to be shy and tell me if u love me or not and dont be shy.so should i do it or not?
sry i did some spelling problems i didnt proof read
what do you do if the boy you once dated is now dating someone else ? But you just realized how much you care about him, and you want to tell him ? but isnt sure how, and is preety sure it wont make a differenc.
for everyone:
On saying “I love you” –
someone saying “I love you” to you is an amazing thing. it makes you feel great inside and lifts your spirits. but what if you have trouble saying it? its not just about what you say, its how you act. It is the way you treat the person you love that really matters. if you like music, More Than Words by Extreme is a great song 😉
On cheating –
if you’ve ever cheated on someone you truly love, than you know how it feels. you begin to hate yourself for what you’ve done, and you always think what could happen if you told that person. the idea of that person crying or the possibility of you losing them is painful, but eventually, you must come to realize that you need to tell them the truth.
Lying is done with words, and also with silence.
Whatever happens after you tell them, telling them was the right thing to do. it takes courage to do it, but in a relationship built on trust, you need to tell the person.
To my love:
For my past, my present, and my future: I’m sorry.
Please forgive me.
I’m a little confused. My guy friend and I have been friends for about almost 4 years now, at first I had no feelings what so ever, we’d be normal friend who go to the movies, drive around, play on the same baseball team, talk about everything(old relationships). Then last year my feelings for him became more, I started to notice how cute he really was and every now and then i keep thinking, if we ever got into a relationship it would work since we’re both kind of the same. But one night last year when I was finally going to tell him i liked him, I went out with the girls, he and i were texting, talking, normal thing we do all the time. He told me to tell him something and I said hey I really like you, I think this could be something. Then nothing, I guess we both got really nervous after that cause we stopped talking for about 4 months, he went back to school for the year and I stayed home. During then I kind of starting seeing a different guy cause I had in my mind this was not going to work with my guy friend. He found out, asked about. Once the guy i was seeing and i ended it, i told my guy friend and ever since then we got back to how we were as friends, hanging out, movies, etc. I invited him to be my date for my brothers wedding, he came. Did the whole wedding thing, dinner, dance. We walked home afterwards and I wanted to hold his arm(which we never held hands before ever) and he let me lock my arms into his. And my feelings are still there for him, slowly grower bigger. I want to start something but he’s going to school for his last year in a couple weeks. I’m really afraid to lose our friendship if I say anything but if I dont say anything, I’m afraid this year he will find someone else and I’ll lose out. Help!
I love this guy one day older than me. What should I do??? We’re both only 11 but I get all these sexual feelings all the time when he isn’t there! Is anything wrong with me? When he’s actually there, I don’t feel strange at all. In fact, I sort of ignore him. I think he likes this other girl in our class. I don’t know what to do!!! Last time I tried to tell him, he’s like “Ewww… What gave you that idea?”
Help!
To my Beautiful fiancee Vicki… I know we have our rough times, i know at times i’m not the best, but my love for you is stronger then the fastest current, i believe that our love for each other has the power to over-come anything that may stand in our way. I shall love you forever and always as we say, and not a day will pass that i won’t stop to think about the day we get to be together, i love you vicki, truely and deeply, and i shall stand by this oath for as long as i shall live “i promise to do anything i can to make you happy, i will try to my hardest to make you smile, i will love you forever and always and shall to my part to keep our love alive.” Love you Vicki…forever and always
To Anon:
You sound like you really like him at least somewhat, you are young but love still exists in anyone no matter what age, you may not understand it fully and depends on how you are!
The sexual feelings is a lil odd but normal, that may come from you truly loving the guy, he may not feel the same way but he may, not knowing how to answer and the thing he told you was immature, he could have been nicer about it. The same thing happened to me when I told this boy how I felt about him, he told me ‘hell no’ when I asked him out, I soon got over it.
Just keep your hopes up high, your chin off the ground, your heart in a safe place and protect it, never let it fall in the wrong hands. Maybe you can still stay friends with the guy after a while, the boy I trusted enough to tell him how I felt turned me down because of his friends v-v, I know how immature he was and that he honestly obviously did not love me the way I loved him. But maybe you can continue to hang with him, show him how great you are and that he needs you, within time if he feels the same way he’ll find a way to return the feelings and fall for you, just be there for him whenever he needs it, if he’s ever down and do the tiniest things for him, you’ll never know, maybe the smallest thing will come in handy 😉 good luck!!
ok, i am in love with a girl, but we dated for a while then split, and she has a new bf already. i think she knows how i feel but idk. she isnt real serious with her bf, and has fooled around with me on numerous occasions, but i really love her. I cant think of anything i want to do with my life but spend it with her. what do i do!
I need some advise… Ive been friends with this girl for like 4 years…. she had a boyfriend that was my bestfriend..They dated for 3 years…..witch he treated her like crap. they been broken up for 1 in a half years, and she still likes him. just about 5 mouths ago iv been just been falling for her. my other friend is after her but she is still in love with her ex.. so do i tell her how i feel or what??? I dont wont to cause more stress on her… she has delt with alot with her ex.. but i how do i deal with my feelings? I get some hints that she likes me back but then i dont. im just confused?
so your problem is that you’ve kept your life in the dark. just tell her if you really like her. she won’t get stressed but she may not like you back.there are a lot more untuned fish in the sea. that so isn’t the case for this questuion;
There is this girl that knows i like her but we broke up at least a week ago. she has feelings for a boy that didn’t like her till recently. I\’m having suicidal thoughts and want to kill the guy she likes. please help me…. whaaa!!!!! AFK.(side note i’m only eleven
…. this thread kills me
My question may be one that is more confusing than many I’ve read on here. Everyone seems to be asking whether it is infatuation or love…
My problem however, is that my feelings of love have “disappearedâ€, even though I know that I love him. I don’t plan on him being the one I am with the rest of my life, as I am still very young, but I know it is possible to have more than one love in your life.
I think the reason for my lost feelings is that I also am unaware as to how he feels about me. It seems that physical actions (ie. sex) are all that is important to him. I know it is often hard for men to express forms of love, but there is the feeling that all he wants is the physical side to the relationship.
I once told him (when I was still unsure whether I loved him) that I did and he broke up with me, although we got back together a very short time later–less than a week. It has now been almost six more months, and still nothing. I am wondering, am I wasting my time? It doesn’t feel that way, but perhaps that is how it is, and I am just afraid to venture back out in the world of single people? He leaves for college soon anyways, so our separation will happen regardless, but I want to enjoy life in the now. I feel joyful, but when I don’t get any feelings of love back, it seems to dissapate? Any
suggestions?
Reply: look i was/am in the same situation. first try n go with someone else n see if it makes any difference at all to him but make sure thet person knows. then next try n find out wat priority u are 1st or second, or wat. if both reactions are negative then im sori but ur wasting ur time n self respect. i thout i mite jus share my story so ppl in da future can help themselves.
My situation was that the guy was a fair bit older than me n in the start he told me lots of lies n got me with him. at first he understood thaat i wasnt ready (kissing and sex) but after a month he just started forcing me to. In the months that followed he didnt care wat i felt like what i wanted all that he knew was that he wanted sex and he was gonna get it. no matter how much i refused he emotionally blackmailed me n got it outta me. in the folllowing months i found out that da rumours of his girlfriend n future marriage wasnt a lie. he had a girlfriend n she was his first priority always was and always will be. then i asked him what i was then he replied i was the girl he liked. i broke up in the weeks following. it was one of the hardest but best things i ded. i loved him do much but now i have someone else who is a thousand times better a loves me madly. i feel the same for him. n he is helping me gain my self respect back. Hope u dont make the same mistake as me.
i had been seeing a lad 4 6 months b4 this we wer gd friends 4 a long time my x boyfriend died b4 i met him and i found it hard 2 move on i was always cold and not sure i was doing the right thing then the last 2 month it all changed i was happy i wonted 2 be his girlfriend but then he said he couldnt see me again am so confussed
Wow a 5 year old thread, thats something =]. Continuing the subject….. I have made many mistakes in my last relationship, which lasted over a year and i could easily say i was in love with that girl. She meant the world to me and although very young i thought she was the one. Because of the mistakes we both made we broke up, i locked myself in my house for weeks and had a severe case of depression. Although i had advice off many experts, i just would like some advice from a normal person who has had experience\\\’s in learning how to trust women that i start to date and not get paranoid from day 1. I am seeing somebody at the moment and i am crazy about them. She is perfect, but she seems to hide her feelings so i dont know how she feels. i dont know what to do in this situation because i simply get abit down and think the worst. =/…. now i am going to begin reading 5 years of past love experiences, i hope this thread never closes, it holds so much. =]
ey i have a sex prob i have 2 have sex like 7 times a day and if i dont i get shity wats wrong wit me if u can help me add me on msn katie_123@example.com.au thank u p.s im 17